Some women feel a little intimidated by a shorter man.If you're one of those women, you may have to think about your priorities when dating a shorter guy.You may want to focus on what you like about him, rather than what he doesn't like.
Step 1: The filter should be removed.
If you're trying to date online, don't use height as a factor.You might be looking for someone who is perfect for you, but he's a few inches shorter than you want.If you want to include a height in your profile, try not to mention it.You can say "Only tall guys!" if you mention your height.Many guys think you don't want to date them and move on.In real life, the same is true.Don't dismiss a guy just because he's shorter than you.
Step 2: You should check your confidence.
Many women feel like they need to be with a taller guy because of their size.Having a taller guy makes them feel smaller.How you feel about yourself should not be based on how your guy's body relates to yours.In a relationship with a shorter guy, you need to feel secure in your own body.Think about why it's hard to be with a shorter guy.Does he make you feel large?Are you embarrassed to be taller?It's a good time to explore your feelings.Try to think differently.Being shorter than a guy doesn't make you feminine.It doesn't make you taller than your boyfriend.Only you can decide if you feel feminine or not.You can affirm yourself in the mirror.You can say, "I love the soft wave of my hair."It is possible to get over some of your doubts by building your confidence this way.
Step 3: It's cool to play it cool on a date.
If you're going on a first date with a short guy, maybe you shouldn't wear your tallest heels.That doesn't mean you should stand still.Adding more inches won't draw attention to the height difference.Try to ignore any comments about the height difference unless he makes a joke about it.
Step 4: Don't make light of his height.
He probably doesn't like hearing jokes about how short he is because he's tall.When you're first starting out, try to ignore the wisecracks.
Step 5: Don't let your bias get the better of you.
If you've dated a lot of taller guys, it may take some time to get used to them.As long as you all agree you're not exclusive, you can date other guys.Give yourself time to get to know him and adjust your feelings about his height.It doesn't make him less of a man or a woman if you're shorter than him.
Step 6: What you like about him is what you should focus on.
If you're concerned about the height difference, you should focus on the externals.Think about what you like about him, such as his charm, his intelligence, or his compassion.You can't build a relationship on height alone, but you can build one on personality.
Step 7: It's very easy to kiss him.
If you have a taller guy than you, you need to kiss him.You're more likely to kiss a shorter guy.You can kiss him without pulling a muscle if you pay attention when you say goodnight to him.
Step 8: The data needs to be looked at.
Guys who are shorter have to work harder to get ahead.Studies have shown that shorter men do more housework than taller men.
Step 9: appreciate how he increases your height
While being taller than your boyfriend may make you feel out of place, try to look at it in a different way.Standing next to him makes you look like a model, not tall and gangly, because most models are on the taller side.
Step 10: There are happy couples.
While a short guy with a tall girl isn't as common as the opposite, you'll find many happy couples in the world who are similar in heights to you and your guy.Once you've observed a few couples, you will likely find that they don't care about the height difference at all.They just love each other.
Step 11: Decide you won't allow others to get you down.
When you're trying to meet guys or going out with a shorter guy, you don't need to hide your height.Most people find confidence sexy, so don't try to hunch over, as that will make you look like you're ashamed of it.Stand up straight, look people in the eye, and smile.It's up to you if you want to even out your heights a bit after you're dating someone.
Step 12: Don't wear the heels.
If you don't want to emphasize your height difference, you can wear flats most of the time.It's a bonus that your feet won't hurt as much.If you want to wear heels, try a shorter pair.
Step 13: It's a good idea to practice "the lean."
One way to even out your height differences, particularly when you're wearing heels, is to lean a little bit to the side by sticking out a hip.You need to lean on your boyfriend.You don't want to sit down.You don't want to look taller with your boyfriend.