It can be awkward to experience romantic feelings for your best friend's sister.There is nothing wrong with having such feelings, but it can be difficult to navigate.Trust, respect, good communication, and honesty are some of the keys to exploring such romance.To maintain your friendship and explore a possible romantic relationship, you need to figure out your true feelings, build positive relationships and express your genuine interest.
Step 1: You have to figure out how you feel for her.
Since you don't want to compromise your friendship, you should start by figuring out how much you like her.You can explore your feelings in a journal.How long have you had feelings for her?How would you describe your feelings?To make sure you are interested in her as a romantic partner, take a moment to reflect on your feelings.
Step 2: Being yourself is something to practice.
Rather than trying to change her, be yourself.Take a few minutes to reflect on the values that you hope to embody in a romantic relationship.It's okay to take some time to think about a relationship.
Step 3: Be honest with your intentions.
If you have a few crushes at the moment including one for her but also for other people, you should be honest with yourself about these feelings before moving forward.Are you more in love with her than with your other crushes?You can make sure you are on the right path by asking yourself these questions.
Step 4: If you want to express your intentions to your best friend, consider it.
If you are certain about asking her out, you should let your friend know.It doesn't seem like you are asking permission from your friend, which she might not like, so you want to handle it delicately.You want to be transparent with your friend.Your friend will understand that you are serious about a romantic relationship and have genuine respect for their sister and the family if you communicate your genuine intentions.You could go for coffee with a friend and talk about your feelings.Since we went to that concert with your sister Sarah and her friends, I've been having serious feelings for her.I haven't had these feelings in a long time, and they are still there.I would like to ask her out for dinner.Try to restate your genuine feelings for her if your friend questions your intentions.You know the conversation has gone well if they assure you that everything is okay.
Step 5: A relationship with the family is important.
It is a good idea to get to know the family if you have mostly been hanging out with your friend.You will have a better chance of being seen as a good dating prospect if you put some good time into developing these relationships at the beginning.
Step 6: Through family conversations, get to know her a bit better.
You can get to know her better by having a relationship with her family.Use discretion, as this could be a big turnoff.You can get to know her by hanging out with the family and listening to conversations about her and her siblings.If you are at your best friend's house for dinner and she is talking about a family vacation, you should listen to her.
Step 7: Understand her better.
You can get to know her better by talking to her wherever you can and asking about her hobbies and interests.If you know she practices Judo twice a week, you might ask her what she likes about it.How is it different from other martial arts?You can learn more about her life and interests by expressing an interest in something she is passionate about.
Step 8: Find a place to talk with her.
You may be able to ask her out after the service if you go to the same church.You might run into her in the cafeteria if you go to the same mall to work.You need to think about ways to ask her out.
Step 9: Ask her to go out on a date.
She has something to respond to if you are very specific when asking her out.If she is free to check out a movie on the weekend, you could ask her if she would like to go for coffee after class.You might say, "I remember you saying you love dark roast coffee."There is an amazing coffee place on third street in downtown.I think you would appreciate it.A few friends and I are going rock climbing at Echo point on the weekend, do you want to check it out?We might bring a lunch and try to get in three or four climbs.Do you want to join us?
Step 10: There are indirect suggestions to ask her out.
If you feel awkward asking her out, you could use an indirect method.She might reply, "I have a soccer game on Saturday afternoon and then a study group."You could say, "That sounds fun" if she says something like this.I was going to watch a movie on Saturday.You could help her with one of her projects by joining her after her study session."How are you feeling about your upcoming theatre production?"If she says she's worried about her lines, you could say, "You work so hard on them, I know you'll be great!"I would be happy to help you practice them more.Is it possible that we could grab a coffee and listen?
Step 11: Do you enjoy her company?
If you have the chance to go on a date, it is a good idea to let her know how much you enjoy spending time with her.