Have you ever had a crush on someone you didn't know?If you've developed feelings for a girl who is already in a relationship, it's up to you.It is important to respect her situation and avoid threatening tactics.
Step 1: Know about her.
If you don't know much about the girl, you can ask her friends what she likes.It may be easy to find out if you share friends.It is possible to find out what she likes and what you have in common.She may like the same types of movies that you like.Try to catch the movies at the same time so you can talk to her.
Step 2: There is a group and you can spend time with her.
Some people need to spend time in each other's company while others can become instant friends.It is possible to create emotional bonds by hanging out, having fun, and being comfortable around each other.If you're hanging out in a group, it's a good idea to seek her out to talk to her.Since you've shown interest in her, she'll probably be willing to talk to you.This isn't going to happen overnight.You'll need a lot of time together.
Step 3: Show her that you care.
If the girl needs someone to talk to, let her know that you're there for her.Listen and be there for her if she comes to you.You don't have to say anything bad about her current partner.Ask her opinion about something, or talk to her about what's going on in her life.Paying attention to her will show you care about her.She will be more friendly towards you if she's in a romantic relationship.
Step 4: Do not be impatient.
It can take some time to form a friendship.The girl shouldn't be pressured into a relationship.Don't worry, just enjoy her company.You may become good friends with the girl, or she may leave her partner and start a relationship with you.It is possible to encourage the girl to reconsider her current relationship if you are a supportive friend.You make a better partner.
Step 5: Don't be afraid to be yourself.
It's easy to think that you need to be like a girl if you like her.For example, if she competes in several sports but you don't enjoy being athletic, do not participate in sports for her sake.The girl is interested in starting a relationship with the real you if you are honest with her.You'll weaken your emotional bond with her if you're dishonest.When you're not happy pretending anymore, you will set yourself up for disappointment.
Step 6: Spend time with her.
You don't have to ask a girl to spend time with you.She might feel less pressure if you just ask her to go do things together.She's interested in you if she always agrees to spend time alone with you.You could go out for coffee, buy music, check out a farmer's market, or just go shopping.
Step 7: You can offer a gesture of love.
Try to do something out of the ordinary for her by thinking back to the things she likes.It's a classic to give the girl flowers or a poem.It is possible to do something original that is also romantic.If she's interested in original artwork, paint her something.Don't worry, whatever you give her is not professional quality or expensive.The romantic gesture is to show your feelings for her.
Step 8: Drop hints that you like her more than a friend
Tell her how much you enjoy spending time with her.Let her know that you have a lot of fun in a group, but focus on your time alone.How important she is to you could also be mentioned.Text or call her if you want to hint to her directly.It is possible that you have more courage when communicating electronically.This will give her time to process her feelings and respond to you.
Step 9: See how she responds.
See how she reacts when you flirt.She may smile, flirt, tease, or laugh if she's encouraging you.She may be interested in starting a relationship with you.Give her some space if she gives you the cold shoulder.If she doesn't respond well to your flirting, you should consider moving on.If she likes flirting, try to spend more time together.
Step 10: Do you know your needs?
Before you get involved with a girl in a relationship, ask yourself what you're hoping to achieve.Do you want to be friends because you have a lot in common?Are you interested in a romantic relationship?If you're willing to wait for her current relationship to end, then you should look for a different girl who's available to date.
Step 11: Do you want to ask her out?
If you've become good friends, you may be wondering if you should move the relationship forward.Don't ask her out if she's still in a relationship.She has already made her choice since she's in a relationship.You could ask her out if she asks you out, or you could wait and see.Plan how you want to ask her out.It's a good idea to figure out what you want to say and how you'll ask her.
Step 12: Ask her out on a date.
Ask her out for a date and keep the stakes low.Asking her to be your girlfriend is a bad idea.She may be under too much pressure if she just ended her relationship.When you ask her, be confident and hopeful.She should be given a few choices.You could say, "I know you like Thai food."Would you like to go to the new Thai restaurant with me tomorrow?Maybe we could go to a concert this weekend?
Step 13: Allow her to make her own decision.
Don't argue or keep asking if she says no.She might not want to start a relationship with you.If she won't let you, be mature and calm.She doesn't need to be mean or rude to you because she feels bad about turning you down.Say "Ok, maybe another time, I totally respect your decision" if you don't know what to say.You like her, but also understand how she feels.
Step 14: Be honest with yourself.
Don't lie to yourself about the girl's feelings for you if she is still in another relationship.She's choosing to remain in the other relationship if you're a good friend.She is waiting for you to ask if she is secretly in love with you.Knowing when it's time to move on is part of being honest with yourself.If the girl doesn't want to leave her relationship, you may need to see someone else.