You need to learn how to hold her romantically if you want to show your girlfriend that you're thinking of her.By making her feel special with a romantic touch, you can deepen your bond with her.
Step 1: Relax and be confident.
Your touch can communicate many things to her, but what you may not know is that it can also communicate your state of mind.If you are nervous, tense, or fearful, your girlfriend will be able to sense it through your touch.If you're nervous about holding your girlfriend, remind yourself that she likes you.She's probably hoping that you'll take her hand or put your arm around her.Don't be arrogant, but be confident.Don't assume that you have free access to your girlfriend's body at any time.Don't be disrespectful of her space.You can calm yourself by breathing in for four seconds.You should begin to feel more at ease if you repeat this at least four times.You can pinch yourself between your thumb and index finger if you're still nervous.Applying pressure to this area can calm your nervous system.
Step 2: She needs to be okay with contact.
Asking her is the easiest way to do this.Can I hold you?It is a way to know that she is comfortable with being touched.If you want to watch her reaction, you can try touching her in non-threatening areas, like between her elbow and her hand.Look closely at her body language.If they're paying attention, people can read each others emotions via touch.If her muscles tense, she avoids eye contact, or you get a vibe that she doesn't like it, stop what you're doing.If your girlfriend is not ready to be touched, don't be upset or offended.Some people don't like to be touched.It doesn't mean she dislikes you.Think about how long you've been dating and what she's said in the past about her limits.If she wants things to go slow, it's not a good idea to grab her butt after a week of dating.
Step 3: Take into account your environment.
You won't want to hold her the same way if you're in the middle of the lunchroom or at a family gathering.It can be awkward for her and the people around her.It could get her in trouble if you're around her parents.Put your hand in her back pocket when you're in public, just hold hands, or put your arms around each other.When you're alone, save the cuddling and intimate stuff.
Step 4: She should hold her hand.
"We are a couple!" will be declared to the world when you hold hands.You should get close to her so that you can see her.If you can see how she reacts to the first touch, you will be able to hold hers easily.If you're nervous and sweating, wipe your palms on your pants before reaching for her hand.She has a pinkie finger.It's flirtatious and makes it easy for her to drop your hand if she isn't feeling the hand-holding yet.If you put your hand under hers, they will be palm-to-palm.Put your fingers through hers.If you were making a "begging" gesture, try hooking your thumb over hers and wrapping your fingers around the back of her hand.If you want your palms to not get sweaty, you may want to change positions every few minutes.
Step 5: Your arm should be around her waist.
If you are standing next to each other and watching something, this is a romantic way to hold your girlfriend.You can slide your hand down to her hip or up near her ribs if there is a height difference between you.Place your hand on her waist as you walk side-by-side.Pull her toward you so she is in your arms.She might not want to be touched near her stomach.If you squeeze her, she may not be comfortable because she is a little self-conscious about her waist.If she doesn't like it when you put your arm around her shoulders, try sliding your hand up to the bottom of her ribs.
Step 6: It's a good idea to hug her.
When you are facing each other, this should be done.It's best done in private, since you'll be face-to-face, and it may lead to some kissing.Wrap your hands around your girlfriend's back.Pull her towards you so that your bodies are not too tight.Rest your chin on the top of her head and look into her eyes.Let your arms slide down so that you can embrace her around her waist if she is comfortable with it.
Step 7: Wrap your arms around her as you approach from behind.
You should know that she's okay with being touched and that you are already familiar with her boundaries.Put your hands under her arms as you walk up to her.Wrap your arms around her waist.You can kiss the top of her head, cheek, or neck.
Step 8: She has a shoulder.
This move allows you to hold your girlfriend against you and invites her to rest her head on your shoulder.drape your arm across her back when sitting side by side.You can either hold her arm or run your hand up and down.Try to run your fingers through her hair after a few minutes.If you are very comfortable with each other, take your free arm and slide it under her knees, encouraging her to lift her legs and drape them across your lap.You can rest your head on the top of her head if she rests it on your shoulder.
Step 9: If you are lying on the couch, spoon your girlfriend.
Lie on your side.She should be with her.Wrap your arm around her and pull her back against you.You have to figure out what to do with the arm that is beneath you.If your arm gets pinned under your girlfriend or body weight, it can quickly become uncomfortable.If you're spooning, make it even more intimate by tying your legs together.
Step 10: When you are lying down, put your arm around her shoulders.
It is a good time to bring her close to you if you are having a nice day in the park and decide to stretch out on your backs and look at the sky.If you are not side by side, move to the other side.If you have her lift her head, you can get your arm around her.Pull her toward you by placing your hand on her shoulder.She can rest her head on your chest or arm.She can either lay on her back or roll onto her side.You can use your hand to care for her face or her hair.