All you need is a plan to ask the cute boy at school.If you're feeling confident, approach your crush when he's alone, either during lunch or after school.If you want to play it safe, invite him along to an event or a group hangout, or be bold and ask him to do something with you.Think about the way you are going to ask him.
Step 1: When he is alone, approach him.
It is best to start talking to your crush when you are alone and no one can interrupt you.Try to talk to your crush at the end of the school day, at lunch or in between classes.If you both are involved in the same extracurricular activities, you can talk to him during an after-school activity.Talking to him outside of school and classes can make the conversation more personal.You can try to catch him while he is walking in the halls or at his locker.It's a good idea to avoid talking to him in the middle of class.
Step 2: Make eye contact by smiling.
When you say hello, make sure to smile and make eye contact.He may be nervous to talk to you if you have been hitting it off.A smile shows that you are happy to see him.A smile can be a powerful tool because people are naturally drawn to optimism and positive thinking.
Step 3: Start talking.
When you say hi, start a conversation with your crush.Ask him something casual, like how his weekend was or what the homework is for the class.Ask him if he's finished the Latin project, and then talk about shared classes or interests.If the conversation slows down, ask him a question about himself.Before asking your crush out, you should have casual conversations like this a few times.This will allow you to get to know each other better and will make it easier to ask him out.
Step 4: Give him a pat on the back.
The compliment is an innocent way to transition the conversation from casual to more personal.It is also a subtle way to show your interest.People respond to flattery, so you can give him a small compliment.It's possible to say something like, "I like your shirt!" or "Good job with the game on Saturday."
Step 5: You should flirt with your crush.
If you feel bold, flirt with your crush.There are many ways to flirt.It is possible to set the scene for asking him out by flirting with your crush.It can be as simple as smiling and laughing at his jokes.You can use flirtatious body language, like leaning your body slightly towards him, while he is talking.Touch his arm if he says something funny.A small amount of physical contact can go a long way.It is important to maintain friendly eye contact.
Step 6: Drop a hint.
You can indirectly ask your crush out if you don't like being direct.If you want to go to an event or see a movie, bring it up.Your crush has a chance to ask if you want to go with him.There is a new science fiction movie showing tomorrow.Pause after you tell him about the event, because none of his friends are sci-fi fans.He has time to ask you to go.You can use a different approach to ask him out if he doesn't take the bait.He might not pick up on this subtle approach.
Step 7: Ask him for help.
Asking for his help outside of school is a way of indirectly asking out your crush.You could ask him to tutor you or help you with a homework project.Asking him to hang out without being obvious that you like him is a way of asking him.If you really need help with something, ask for it.It is never a good idea to lie in order to get your crush as a private tutor.
Step 8: You can invite your crush to the party.
If you want to be more direct about asking out your crush, invite him to come to an event with you.Asking him to hang out in a group makes it more of a casual date.If you have mutual friends, your crush is sure to feel at ease.He may think you just want to be friends if you ask him to hang out in a group.This isn't a reason not to ask him this way, you may just have to intensify your flirting when you do hang out!
Step 9: Ask your crush to hang out with you.
If you're feeling bold, ask your crush to go to a movie with you, even if that means going to your favorite restaurant.You don't need to use the word "date" to say, "I was wondering if you want to go to a movie sometime" or "There's a new restaurant that just opened up in town."If you ask him if he wants to hang out, he'll know you're asking him out.
Step 10: Ask him out in a different way.
You can ask out your crush without going the conventional route.If you're asking your crush out to an event, make a big gesture.Making a big gesture can be nerve-racking but it can also be effective.If you want your crush to go to prom with you, make a cake that says, "Will you go out with me?" or "Do you attend?"There is a message for your crush in the snow.A note asking him out is the result of a scavenger hunt for your crush.If you and your crush have been talking for a while and know each other well, it's best to make a big gesture like this.
Step 11: Extra time is spent on your appearance.
It's a good idea to get ready in the morning on the day of your proposal.It will give you confidence to ask out your crush if you know that you look your best.You should wear an outfit that you know you look good in.Do your hair and makeup when you're a girl.If you want a look that will last all day, aim for it.Make sure to wear clothes that look good on you if you're a guy.
Step 12: Don't overdress.
Asking out your crush is a special occasion, but don't dress in a way that is too formal for school.Rather than dressing for the red carpet, aim to be casual and cute.Try not to wear clothes that are too revealing.
Step 13: You should have a general idea of what you are going to say.
When in the day it's best to talk to your crush, think about how you want to approach him.You are less likely to get flustered when you see him if you have a general plan.It is not necessary for you to have an exact plan of the conversation that you will have with him. conversations are fluid and you can not plan for everything.You can ask him to hang out if you know where you are going to talk to him.
Step 14: You can give yourself a pep talk.
It's a good idea to pump yourself up before you meet your crush.Think about what makes you proud and what distinguishes you from the other people.Try to imagine yourself going up to your crush and asking him out.Simple visualization can give you courage.The worst thing that can happen is that he'll say no and everyone gets rejected.