It's important to choose a bridesmaid for your wedding.Asking them in a fun, creative way is what you may not want to do in person.You can ask someone to be your bridesmaid in many different ways.To ask someone, start by carefully choosing your bridesmaids, make a gift, or hold a special get together to ask everyone at once.
Step 1: You should make a list of possible choices.
Take your time to think about who you want to ask before you ask.Discuss your choices with your partner.If everyone can attend a destination wedding, think about where it will be held.You should make a list of people you would like to ask.Do you know if each person will fit in your wedding?Discuss with your fiancée how many people will be in their wedding party.If you want the number to match, you have to decide.
Step 2: The obligation trap can be avoided.
When they get married, some people feel obligated to ask certain people questions.There can be stress for the bride, groom, and wedding party.You don't have to ask anyone.It is your wedding.You don't have to ask someone who was in your wedding years ago.You don't have to ask people's siblings.Do you want to be a bridesmaid?
Step 3: Break with the stereotypes.
Just because you are a bride doesn't mean you have to have all women in your party.If you are close to the men in your life, have bridesmen instead of bridesmaids.You want to make your wedding the way you want it.If you want your brother in your wedding, or your best friend is a man, ask them.It is not necessary to match the number of men and women in a wedding party.Regardless of whether or not traditional rules are followed, have the people you truly care about with you.
Step 4: Ask your friends if you can trust them.
Being a bridesmaid is a big responsibility, and they will need to be there for you.Pick friends who have been with you for a long time, who are loyal, or who you know you can trust.If you haven't been friends for a while, be careful with newer friends.You don't know if you can trust them.
Step 5: Ask people who support you.
If you want someone to be in your wedding, don't ask them if they support your marriage or not.Ask your friends to be happy for you on your big day.
Step 6: Don't be upset if someone says no.
Some people may not have the time or money to be a bridesmaid.If someone declines to be in your wedding, don't get upset.You can say, "I completely understand" if someone declines.Thank you for that!I hope you will attend the wedding!
Step 7: There is a way to ask.
There are many ways to ask someone to be a bridesmaid.If you are good at making crafts or just want to create a unique way to ask your bridesmaids, then you should try creating an artistic proposal.You can put your question in a fortune cookie.White chocolate and metallic sprinkles are used to decorate the fortune cookie.Attach labels to bottles of wine, champagne, or sparkling cider asking if they would be your bridesmaid.You can place labels on candles in the colors of your wedding or in scents that remind you of the bridesmaid.
Step 8: Send them a card.
You can surprise your bridesmaids with a card in their mailbox or send them a letter.The inside of the card can contain a note from you, while the outside can ask a question.You have the option to make your own cards.You can print designs from a computer program, or you can decorate the card with ribbon, glitter, flower petals, and other decorations.Some companies sell cards that ask someone to be a bridesmaid.
Step 9: You can create a book.
Take a bunch of photos of fun times you had with your potential bridesmaids.Do a photo album if you don't want to do a whole album.You can ask the question on the last page.You can add copies to each one.This may include movie tickets, receipts, or notes.
Step 10: They can be picture frames.
Purchase frames for each bridesmaid at a craft store.The frame should be decorated with their name.If you are artistic, you can draw something on the frame, paint something using a stencil, or add decorative accents.Don't forget to put the picture on the inside.
Step 11: Purchase jewelry for them.
Asking someone to be your bridesmaid with jewelry is a good way to do it.Since you are tying the knot, you can buy rings, bracelets, or necklaces with bows.You can choose jewelry in the design of your wedding theme if you already know the theme.Many online sellers sell bridesmaid-themed jewelry.
Step 12: There is a special day.
Take your potential bridesmaids to a nice place and ask them there instead of giving them a gift.You can use the chance to have everyone together to ask for a special themed gift or surprise.If you go for a spa day and treat everyone to a pedicure, you could ask them afterwards.You could give them matching robes that say "bridesmaid" on them.
Step 13: Everyone should be treated to a meal.
Your treat is to invite your bridesmaids to get together for a meal.You can ask them to be your bridesmaid when everyone is together.You can sit at each person's seat before you arrive if you have place cards that say "bridesmaid" on them.
Step 14: You can have a party with coffee, tea, or ice cream.
Everyone is invited to a party.You can have a coffee bar, a tea party, or an ice cream bar.Everyone can make their own desserts and eat them before you ask them.
Step 15: Cookies or cupcakes can be decorated.
You might want to ask your potential bridesmaids with food if you like to cook.Prepare a cookie or cupcake for each woman at the engagement party.You can use the question or the word to decorate the cookies.You could put flags in the cupcakes that say "BRIDESMAID" or ask the question.
Step 16: Ask them individually.
You can ask the lucky lady in person if you want to keep it simple.You can invite them to your home, visit them, or meet for coffee.Before you ask, catch up and enjoy time with each other.Say something like, "I have something very important to ask you"Would you be my bridesmaid?