Since what works with other girls may not work with a man, it may be difficult to make a connection.There are many simple techniques you can use to woo your crush.Being kind, showing an interest in her hobbies, and showing respect to both her masculine and feminine aspects will help you attract a man.
Step 1: To your crush, be friendly.
Just be kind to her, if you already go to school, work, or a similar place with your crush.If you don't know each other, introduce yourself and she will know who you are.Don't insult her, give her backhanded compliment, and other common flirting tactics, because nobody likes a jerk.
Step 2: She is a member of a team or club.
tomboys are members of clubs, teams, or groups that are focused on a specific activity.Football or basketball teams can range from video game or D&D clubs to them.Become a member of the group or attend a public event hosted by the organization if you are interested in the activity.Your crush is more likely to notice you if you are more engaged.
Step 3: Her friend group is where you can connect with her.
Become friends with another person in her social group if you want to get closer to your crush.Your crush is more likely to accept you and your advances if you've already been approved by her.
Step 4: Send her a message on social media.
Send your crush a message on social media if she is shy.Send her a casual message and keep it low-key until you see how she responds.Keep the conversation going if she writes back.Introduce yourself and tell her how you know her.Information on her family, friends, and interests can be found in her profile.
Step 5: Ask her questions about who she is.
It's important to show that you're interested in the other person in order to make a connection.Keep things light at first, asking questions such as: What music does she listen to?Which athlete is her favorite?What do she like to do?Remember that it should be a conversation, not an interrogation, so answer any questions she asks you or build on the things she says.
Step 6: Look for common interests.
Take an interest in her pastimes if you ask about her hobbies.She can take the lead if she is involved in things where she can show off her skills.Ask her to teach you some tricks if she's interested in skateboarding.If she plays sports, try to throw a ball around with her.If you haven't tried one of her hobbies, give it a try.She can hit a few balls with some clubs.Ask her if she likes old movies.If your crush is an athlete, try to make a bet on whether or not she can score 3 goals in a row or kill 10 enemies without taking damage.
Step 7: Show off your sense of humor.
Making someone laugh is a great way to connect with them, and tomboys are typically more open to weird, crude, or off-color jokes than other girls.Try to find humor that she finds funny.Try to use more in the future if she laughs at a pun or rude joke.To avoid making fun of specific people, try to avoid drama.It is better to focus on entertaining than insulting.
Step 8: During your conversations, keep eye contact.
Don't check your phone or look at other people.Keep your focus on her.This is the best way to let her know that you're interested in what she's saying.Eye contact is important, but staring for too long is off-putting.
Step 9: Look at her.
One of the easiest ways to make someone feel comfortable is with a genuine smile.Try to keep the smile genuine.A forced smile can make her feel uncomfortable.
Step 10: Make fun of yourself.
You can make a joke about the clothes you're wearing, or tell a story about a time you messed up.Laughing at yourself is a great way to bond with your crush and let her know that you can joke with her.Don't get too carried away with self-deprecating humor, it is a great way to break the ice.She may begin to think that you aren't joking if you constantly put yourself down.
Step 11: Remove the tea from her.
A little teasing can bring out your crush's playful side and make her more open to your advances.Give her a silly nickname, disagree with something she said, or tell her about a favorite band or show.Make it clear that you're joking around and not making fun of her.
Step 12: You can laugh at her jokes.
It's easy to show you like someone by laughing at their jokes.When your crush tells a joke, pay attention, even if she isn't very funny, and give at least a laugh.Laughing for longer than you normally would can show her that you have a crush.
Step 13: She has small changes in her appearance.
While they don't wear frilly dresses or tons of makeup, many men still care about how they look and put a lot of work into it.She should look for small changes in her appearance, like a new outfit, hairstyle, or hat.This will make her feel good because you're paying attention.
Step 14: As you talk, lean toward her.
Lean in toward her when you're having a conversation.This shows your interest in her and draws her attention to you.If she seems receptive, try to break the touch barrier by placing your hand on her arm, shoulder, or leg, as sharing personal space is a key way to increase romantic and sexual tension.
Step 15: If you feel a connection, ask her on a date.
If you're spending more time together and enjoy each other's company, ask if your crush would be interested in going on a date.Don't wait for her to get down on one knee.If she says yes, go to a place that fits your personality, like a movie theater or diner.Relax and assess the situation if she says no.She might want to be friends, or she might not be ready for a relationship.