It's worth the effort to become attractive to someone at work.Everyone appreciates beauty in their lives, so do your part to make the world more beautiful by becoming more attractive.Dressing well and eating right are only part of the equation.You will want to be more positive and confident.Being more attractive and charming at work will make you feel good, even if your efforts are directed at a coworker.
Step 1: Wear work-appropriate clothing.
Carefully watch how you dress.The attention and admiration of people in the office can be influenced by how you look.While steering clear of outfits you might wear for a bar night out with friends, go for office chic and classics and wear a nice suit and tie.If you have to wear a uniform at work, it's a good idea to dress it up with accessories or shoes.Always aim for flawless grooming if that's not allowed.While still having a professional flair, choose designs that accentuate your shape.If you wear scrubs or a specific uniform for work, the best way to make sure you look good is to have it tailored to fit your shape.Choose outfits that compliment your body type.Don't wear outfits that are too tight.Don't show too much skin.If you want to attract someone you're interested in, doing so at the office is not a good way to do it, as it may earn you an unwanted reputation.To ensure you remain within corporate dress code, refer to your common sense and employee handbook.If you don't know where the line is drawn, look out for others.Even if it is just a trim of red or a red shirt with a white blouse or dark suit, wear red.The sexes are more attracted to each other if they are wearing red.
Step 2: Take care of your hair.
Men could get a pompadour or cut.While keeping it close, the cut leaves several inches on top.The pompadour evokes a classic, effortless cool like that of James Dean, with a long, textured top and tapered sides.A little messiness in your hair is sexy.To attract a coworker, the important thing is to keep it looking nice.Men are turned off by hair that is greasy, too loaded with product, or dyed unnatural colors.It's a good idea to wash and condition your hair every couple days.If you want to dye your hair, keep it red, black, blonde, or brown.
Step 3: A mist of perfume or cologne can be used.
Don't bathe yourself in the stuff, but use it to compliment your scent.Women use scent in order to determine if a partner is compatible with them.
Step 4: Your facial elements should be symmetrical.
Make sure your facial hair is balanced by shaving evenly on both sides of your face.If you want to grow a beard or mustache, make sure it comes in evenly.Women might think patchy facial hair is indicative of a man in poor health.To achieve a balanced skin tone, women should apply makeup carefully.If you have an asymmetrical haircut, don't give yourself a dramatic comb-over.The men and women should think about their eyebrows.Bushy brows are not attractive.
Step 5: It's a good idea to eat a healthy diet.
A diet of whole grains, fruits, and vegetables will give your skin a healthy glow.It is possible to add a rosy hue to your cheeks with the help of the produce.The recommended daily amount of fruit and veggies is three cups a day.
Step 6: Get in shape.
The gym is a good place to work out.Both cardiovascular and strength training can be done.It's easy to become trim and fit.People will notice when you lose weight and gain energy even if you can't show it off in a job.Improve your posture to make you seem more attractive.
Step 7: Change your expression.
Men and women possess different levels of attraction.Women are more attractive when they smile.Men appear more attractive to women when they look powerful, proud, and brooding.When standing, walk with pride, and make eye contact, place your hands on your hips.When addressing people, pound your fist on the table.If you want to look more brooding, raise your brow.You might be slightly worried about something.Don't smile or frown.Keep your mouth closed.You could practice power poses to look more powerful.Stand, don't sit, were possible.When addressing someone, lean forward on the table with both arms.Don't cross your arms or sit with your hands in your lap.Both men and women benefit from using open body language.Open body language can boost your sex appeal.Gay men and straight women might use the face platter, a pose in which the hands are placed over each other and then under the chin, with the elbows resting on the table.Gay men should try to smile or laugh more often.
Step 8: Determine why you want to be more attractive at work.
Do you want to be promoted or get a raise?Do you want your coworkers to support your pet projects?Do you want to date someone you work with?It's easier when people find you attractive.It can be difficult to date a coworker.If the relationship were to go south, you could be fired, transferred, or just have to endure an unpleasant work environment where you face your ex every day.
Step 9: You should stay focused on your special person.
Don't try to impress everyone at work.You may get a bad reputation if you date multiple people in your workplace.Tailor your appearance to appeal to the person you seek affection from.Find out what the person is interested in.What makes them laugh?What impressed them?What kind of music do they like to listen to?You will be more attractive to someone if you have a common interest with them.
Step 10: Show interest with your body language.
You can express your interest in someone with certain physical positions.The person you want to appear more attractive to will see it as a green light if you show them you are interested.If you are a man, laugh loudly or spread your arms out.If you are a woman, make eye contact, look down, and comb your hair.Don't bring your chin up, look up at the person you want to attract.
Step 11: You should show your interest in your coworkers.
Don't come on too strong.There is a fine line between being interested in your coworker's life and being potentially intrusive.Don't go too far with personal comments or questions, but act interested in all of your coworkers.If you want to know how much information your co-worker is willing to give you, ask very open-ended questions.People's names and life details should be remembered.If you call them by name and show that you know something about them, people will find you more attractive.Remembering the details of your mom's 75th birthday party shows that you care, which makes you attractive to others.Establish your ability to be confidential.They'll find you more attractive if they know you're a good listener.Don't support office gossip.You won't be drawn into gossip or casting aspersions on others in the workplace, if you let others know.
Step 12: You should be helpful.
Don't ask for anything in return for helping a coworker in need.You're the kind of person who is helpful without being conditional if you give up your time.The kind of quality which attracts others is assisting others with no hope of reward.
Step 13: You should compliment your coworker.
They should be praised for their work in public and private.A kind comment like "great job on that report" will make them feel good.It is possible to praise a coworker's appearance.It is an acceptable compliment to say that it is a nice tie.It is sexual harassment to say that your butt looks great in those pants.
Step 14: Take responsibility with your coworker.
Depending on the extent of trust within your relationship, ask your coworkers to participate in projects or even a personal dilemma.When working on a group project, ask a coworker what he/she thinks about a certain idea.Bringing people together and getting involved can be pretty sexy, especially when individuals feel that you personally made an effort to help their talents shine in front of others.
Step 15: As friends, treat trusted and admired coworkers well.
You can make yourself more attractive to others in the office by forming personal relationships with your coworkers.You can plan outings, dinners, and events with your coworkers.You are less likely to want to spend time with other coworkers if you are inclusive.Ask after their pets, find out about their children, and chat at the water cooler.Spread your charm around.
Step 16: Work hard and impress your coworkers.
A brainy individual is more appealing in a workplace setting.A person who does what he or she sets out to do.In a way that bolsters everyone's participation and leaves nobody out, demonstrate your powerhouse intellect while working on a collaborative project or presentation.Don't brag and always be subtle.Everyone knows that a dependable, stand-out employee will get the job done above and beyond expectations.Everyone knows the best person for the job.Being a willing guide, teacher or mentor is more than just being someone to go to.Positive attention will come your way when you're willing to listen and give useful advice.
Step 17: Be positive and happy.
People like positive, engaging people and dislike grumpy, standoffish people.People are attracted to people who laugh and smile.When you see your coworkers in the morning, make eye contact, smile and greet them by name, because it's important to appreciate the little things at work.Praise the good things they do.Don't let the difficulties get you down.Think of them as opportunities to challenge yourself and grow.Don't worry about problems at work or at home; you'll solve them when you need to.You shouldn't dwell on workplace mistakes.You should celebrate your successes and those of others.Office parties aim to be the life of such a party without becoming the butt of office jokes.It will take you off the running list of being the attractive person in the office if you get hammered and do something extremely embarrassing.It's better to maintain a clear head and approach parties as networking opportunities.
Step 18: You should be comfortable in your own skin.
The way you present yourself at work shows your confidence.Walk with pride, make eye contact and smile, instead of boasting about how great you are.Good posture is maintained at all times.A message is sent to those around you by how you carry yourself.People will know that you have self-respect and personal dignity when you stand and walk confidently.
Step 19: Be brave.
Courageous at work is what you need to have an attractive personality.You should make decisions that you believe in, even if others don't.Even though others are groaning that it's not possible, share your vision for project outcomes.You can be very appealing if you have the confidence and courage to speak up.Avoid being arrogant.You should be confident in your skills and abilities.You should be competent and able in your current role, but make sure you don't come across as arrogant about what you do.There is a fine line between being a braggart and letting your smarts shine.You don't want to say that you're smarter or more capable than another coworker.