Don't play.Playgirls are usually women who expect a certain high-class lifestyle and will manipulate to get what they want.You could be a single person in a complicated wheel of relationships.If you want to know if a girl is playing you for a fool, learn some basic warning signs, and how to negotiate the relationship safely.
Step 1: She wants an expensive lifestyle.
Playgirls are usually characterized by their desire for a wealthy lifestyle, supported by a variety of male admirers all competing for her attentions.It doesn't mean anything about your relationship, but if a girl is particularly focused on wealth and status, it could be a sign that she's ready to play.Look out for the following warning signs that a girl might be somewhat materialistic, and also just crummy kind of date: She refuses to split a tab, mocks server or waitstaff, or refuses public transportation.
Step 2: She has a lot of admirers.
Playgirls often need a large social network of admirers, friends, and lovers.Playgirls use these admirers for support and self-esteem boosting.You might be in a long line if a girl is surrounded by a lot of guys.Playgirls sometimes use male friends as possible prospects while at the same time exploiting the kindness that their friends are giving them.Playgirls use social networks to create seductive webs to lure other guys.Playgirls may brag about how hard it is to get a man.
Step 3: She talks a lot about other women.
Playgirls look on women as competitors, rather than friends.It's not a good sign if a girl criticizes girls on the street based on little more than looks.It's not a good sign if a girl gets jealous when you spend time with other women, including friends, coworkers, and even relatives.
Step 4: Only on a limited schedule can she be with you.
Playgirls date a lot of people at the same time.One sign that a girl isn't able to see you at different times of the day is when she's playing on the field.It might be a sign that a girl is seeing a lot of other guys if she can't make time for you during the week.You can try an experiment.If you have a date set up for one day, try to change it up on the fly and see if she's interested.It might not be a good sign if she's offended.It could be a sign that she has a lot going on with other guys.It's not your business who she hangs out with other than you, if you've just started dating someone.Try to remember that there is nothing wrong with playing the field and having an open conversation with her, instead of getting angry about her other dates.
Step 5: She doesn't like what's happening.
The sign of emotional manipulation and immaturity is when you don't like something.Adults can take disappointment and rejection in stride and move on.Playgirls act like girls.If a girl you're seeing can't get a table at a restaurant or tickets to a show, that's not a good sign.It's one thing to get upset about something serious, but it is another to make a big deal out of it.You can't expect someone to be happy all the time.
Step 6: She has trouble communicating in meaningful ways.
Playgirls don't want to have serious conversations with you.They want to use you for something and then move on.If you've been seeing a girl for a while but haven't had a conversation, that could be a sign of a playgirl.Try something.Decide if you want to talk about the future, your childhood, or any other serious topic.The girl is excited to deepen her emotional bond.It could be a sign that you're dating someone who is superficial.Sometimes, playgirls will try to work from conversation "scripts", which don't last long on dates.It could be a sign that a girl is vapid if she runs out of interesting things to say at a certain point.
Step 7: She changes between hot and cold.
If she doesn't like you, that could be a manipulation tactic.Showing warmth and love and then withholding it is an excellent way of getting a guy locked in and wanting more.It might be a sign of manipulation if a girl seems like she can't get enough of you one minute and you're a stranger the next.Sometimes a playgirl will do just enough to make you feel special, stringing you along.She might try to make up for being absent, but then she will ignore calls or texts.
Step 8: Make sure your expectations are clear.
It's your job to make sure you're on the same page when you start a new relationship.Don't assume that the other person will feel the same way if you're dating someone who wants it to be exclusive.Make your desires clear for the relationship and respect hers as well.What do you want from your relationship?What's the big deal if you want someone to spend time with you a few times a week?Let her know in the early stages if you want a serious relationship.Don't try to change her or yourself if you dislike what you hear.Just end the relationship.There are a lot of people.Don't get caught up in someone you're not compatible with.
Step 9: Talk openly.
Communication is the most important part of a relationship.If you're suspicious of a girl cheating on you, talk to her about monogamy.Talk to her about her relationship.Tell her that you don't feel as close as you'd like to be.Say something like, "Where do you see this relationship going?" if you're not sure how to bring it up.Push for a specific answer if you get a vague answer.Talk to her if she says she wants to be exclusive but behaves differently than that.If she doesn't follow up with what she says she'll do, you should end the relationship.You are not powerless in this situation.
Step 10: You should keep your pocketbook in check.
You can't buy love.If a girl makes her presence contingent on you buying things or giving her expensive or lavish lifestyle gifts, then you're in a bad situation.Don't open your pocketbook when you're out if you suspect a girl is playing you for something.You can see what happens.If she doesn't call you anymore, consider yourself lucky.You freed yourself from a person who loved you only for your money.If your relationship improves, you should try to change your dating habits to make more money.Don't talk about personal finance or your salary with the girls.Any girl who makes it obvious or points out how she wants this is most likely a play girl.Don't look for signs of gold-digging.It will be obvious if it's there.People will be happy to have dinner for them.It is not a sign of something amiss.It's an obsession with stuff and material gifts.
Step 11: It's a good idea to be cautious in the bedroom.
Both emotional and sexual attraction is possible.Sexual attraction is a big part of manipulating a guy.If you're not sure if your relationship is exclusive, it's important that you practice safe sex.
Step 12: There are signs of unfaithfulness.
Playgirls sometimes cheat to get away from having their attention focused on a single guy.They can't fall in love because of this strategy.You should always talk with your girlfriend about the expectations of your relationship.Sometimes open-relationships can work.You need to be on the same page.
Step 13: If necessary, end the relationship.
It's not supposed to be a condition of a relationship.If you feel like a girl is only spending time with you because you give her something, then stop seeing her.There is nothing wrong with ending a relationship that leaves you unfulfilled.It will get worse if you don't get out now.