Cats are more independent than dogs.Your cat can become very affectionate with you even if he or she is being standoffish.Your relationship with them will be improved by their affections.It may take a lot of time and patience to get your cat to like you.The more you like your cat, the more happy they will be.
Step 1: You can learn their body language.
Your cat will show body language that shows they like you when they get more comfortable with you.How comfortable your cat is with you will be determined by how you understand this body language.They can demonstrate head bunting, in which they will lower their head and rub it against your head or other body part.This is a sign that your cat loves you.A way for your cat to leave their scent on you is through head bunting.They can mark you with their scent by rubbing their cheek.One way they communicate that they like you is by marking you with their scent.To show that they like you, your cat will blink and eye contact will be established.The eye contact shows that they trust you.The trust is mutual if you blink back at them.Imitating some of your cat's body language back to them, such as the head bunting and soft blinking, will deepen your bond with them and show them that you have affection for them.Soft purring, kneading you with their front paws, sitting on your lap, and licking you are some examples of their affectionate body language.
Step 2: Provide them with a lot of toys.
Your cat will benefit from toys in your home.It is a great way to get them to like you.Depending on your cat's personality, they may prefer certain toys.They may enjoy toys that dangle from a pole if they like to chase things.If you have an older and more tranquil cat, she may prefer a toy that she doesn't have to chase after, such as a catnip-filled toy, which she can play with when laying down.They don't want to become bored with their toy selection if they rotation the toys on a regular basis.Common household items can be turned into toys for your cat if you don't want to spend a lot of money on toys.For example, empty toilet paper or paper towel rolls and paper bags with the handles removed can be fun for your cat to play with.ribbons, strings, rubber bands are toys that your cat should not play with due to the risk of them swallowing them.The toys could get stuck in your cat's intestines if you Swallow them.This would lead to serious medical problems.These medical problems could be fatal.Plastic eyes are small components that your cat could remove and potentially swallow.If you don't know which toys will work best for your cat, you can visit your local pet store for additional advice.
Step 3: Schedule time with your cat.
Your cat is likely very independent and can entertain themselves.They need to have regular interactions with you in order to like you.Cats tend to be active at dawn and dusk, so it would be good to schedule your playtime with them at these times of the day.Play sessions can be scheduled at dawn and dusk with each session lasting 5 to 15 minutes.Older or overweight cats may not have the endurance for long play sessions.Make sure that you play with them at the same time each day, no matter what time of day it is.This will help you develop and maintain positive bonding sessions with them, and will give them something to look forward to.
Step 4: A regular feeding schedule is important.
Feeding your cat is a chance to bond with them.It's important that your cat sees you as their food source.It is better to feed your cat at specific times of day, rather than leaving food out for them all day.Turkey or chicken should be the first ingredient of their food.Because of the wide variety of cat food available at your grocery store and local pet store, consult with your veterinarians to determine which type of food is best for your cat.Some foods are better for your cat than others.Your cat's age affects how often you feed them.The kittens should be fed 3 times a day.Cats who are 6 months to 1 year old can benefit from twice daily feedings.Once-daily feedings should be sufficient past 1 year of age.Diabetes can affect how often you feed your cat.Your cat's size, activity level, and age are some of the factors that will affect the amount of food you give them.There is no 'one size fits all' approach to how much to feed your cat, but there are some general weight-based recommendations for dry food.It's a good idea to talk to your vet about the amount of food you should feed your cat.
Step 5: Treat your cat.
It's a good way to get your cat to like you.Only a small portion of your cat's diet should be made up of treats.It's a good idea to give your cat treats no more than 2 to 3 times per week.There are cat treats at the grocery store.Do not feed your cat human food.Some human foods are toxic to your cat and should be avoided.Catnip is good for cats.Good behavior can be rewarded with treats.
Step 6: Your cat.
Petting is a great way to bond with your cat.Cats love to be petted near their scent glands, which include the base of the chin, ears, cheeks, and tail.Your cat likes to mark their territory by rubbing against you and your furniture.They will love being petted in these areas.When looking relaxed and content, your cat may not want to be petted all the time or for long periods of time.Give them some space to be alone if they tell you that they are overstimulated by petting or moving away from you.They can tell you how much they're comfortable with.When you pet them, gently stroke your hand where they like to be petted.You can talk to them in a calm and soothing voice to make the experience more enjoyable for you.If they will let you, you should consider brushing and grooming your cat.The areas in which your cat does not like to be touched can be learned by brushing and grooming.
Step 7: Quiet conversations with your cat.
If you have a cat that is timid or anxious, this is helpful.If you keep your interactions quiet and calm, they will warm up to you and become more comfortable with you.Quiet interactions include sitting quietly on the floor or reading a book in the room with you.
Step 8: Don't pet your cat on their belly.
If you know what your cat doesn't like, you can avoid doing things that could hurt your relationship with them.Cats don't like belly rubs.If you try to rub their belly, they will react defensively by extending their claws and trying to bite you.Cats can be predator and prey at the same time in the wild.If you reach for their belly when they're unaware of your intentions, their prey mentality might be triggered and they may do all they can to protect that area of their body.Your cat may feel relaxed and comfortable when they are stretched out and showing their belly.They may be demonstrating defensive behavior.To be on the safe side, don't mistake the showing of their belly as your cat's invitation to rub it.Even though some cats don't like being rubbed, it's best to avoid this area and only pet your cat in areas where they enjoy being touched.
Step 9: Don't make your cat interact with you.
When it comes to how much your cat wants to interact with you, follow his lead.It will make your cat less like you if you force them to play with you or try to pet them when they don't want to.They may be afraid of you because they don't think you will respect their space.As with your cat, they can let you know when they've had enough and want to be alone.If they start growling, hissing, or spitting, give them some time to calm down.Your cat may stop playing on their own if they become tired from playing.If your cat is timid, avoiding forced interactions is important.
Step 10: Do not physically punish your cat.
Since your cat won't be able to make a correlation between their behavior and your punishment, physical punishment is not effective.Give them a timeout, during which you leave the room without talking to them or interacting with them.When they realize that certain behaviors result in you not interacting with them, they will stop those behaviors.It is likely that punishing your cat will make them fearful and wary of you.You can give them a stern no when they demonstrate bad behavior by yelling at them.