What are guys thinking?Sometimes it is hard to know.If you want to get a guy to talk to you more, you can learn how to start conversations and get to know him better.There's no need to wait around on a guy.Get him to come to you.
Step 1: Slowly, begin making contact.
If you want a specific guy to talk to you, you should start by smiling and making regular eye contact.Go up to him if he responds positively, but doesn't approach.It is the 21st century.You don't have to wait.Say "hi" and use his name on a regular basis.Give him a wave.He's going to get the message.
Step 2: Have a plan.
Different situations call for different approaches for all guys.If you want to get noticed by a social guy, try talking to him in a large group with some jokes.It's not a good idea to get a shy guy to notice you.Try to talk to him in private.Don't make it obvious that you have a plan.Just be yourself.If you get tongue-tied when you approach a cute guy, make sure you plan out the basic things you're going to say before you say them.This will make you seem more natural while you're talking.Do not memorize a script.If you're feeling nervous, it's better to have a normal conversation than to try and memorize a scene from a movie.
Step 3: Discuss something that you have in common.
Find out what he likes.Lots of guys like gaming, sports, and music, but they are not all the same.Try to figure out what he's interested in by following him on any of the social media sites that he has.If you do this, you will know if you have anything in common with each other.If you don't know much about a particular game or sport, ask him a few questions to get him to open up.Guys are more comfortable talking about subjects than about themselves.When you have a conversation topic, you can start by asking a simple question, and this may lead to a larger discussion.I was wondering if you could help me with the fill area, I heard you like it.
Step 4: You should have a partner in crime.
If you're feeling nervous, have one of your friends start you off.A person that already knows this guy.One of your friends will be happy to get to know him if you don't know anyone who does.You want to talk to him slowly.That will be awkward.Your friend should talk to you.Ask your friend to bring you up in a few conversations.Tell your friend how funny you are, and how much you enjoy laughing.Don't be afraid to ask your friend to talk you up.Have your friend introduce you to him.When it gets fun.
Step 5: Don't worry about flirting with a guy.
There isn't a big secret to flirting.It's just talking to someone you like.He might feel the same as you when he finds out how you feel.He'll want to be the one to start the conversation next time because it's fun and casual.That's not how relationships work because a guy won't talk to you out of the blue.He'll pull his weight when you put a little effort in.
Step 6: It is important to be clear and obvious.
A little dense is what boys can be.They can't see that you are perfect unless you show him.If this guy says something funny, cute, or smart, tell him what you thought.Say, "That was really funny."Guys love it when you compliment them.Guys like sarcasm.If your guy has a sense of humor, try going the sarcastic route.When a girl is funny, these guys go crazy.
Step 7: Be yourself when talking to him.
Guys take their personality the wrong way because they act in a certain way.Remember to be yourself.He has a problem if he doesn't like you for him.
Step 8: Find out what's going on with his situation.
If there seems to be someone else he might like, it's important to find out whether or not they're dating.You should wait to flirt if they are.If he is single and only has a crush on someone else, make sure to be friends with him.Try and get to know him better.
Step 9: Meet him on a regular basis.
You can make your own fate work for you if you want to "bump into" a guy on a regular basis.You can get to him in the hallway if you know where his locker is.He accidentally sat at his table during lunch.If it becomes obvious, this can seem weird.Don't try to follow this guy through the hallways.If you go to school with him, don't introduce him more than a few times a week.Only once a week can you live in the same town.
Step 10: You should try to get him one-on-one.
If you're not in a large group, it's easier to talk and get a guy to open up.Pull a guy aside in the hallway for a conversation or sit with him on the bus if you want to get to know him.
Step 11: Be nice and be yourself.
Try not to change your personality to be more noticeable.You may see other girls doing this, but they won't last because they're not authentic.You are unique.He will definitely want to keep you, so be yourself.They don't want to be someone for the sake of a relationship.It doesn't matter what looks the guy has.He's not worth it if you have to compromise on your values, beliefs, ideals, worldview and personality to get him.
Step 12: You can dress how you please.
You don't need to change anything to get a guy to talk to you.You need to dress in a way that makes you feel good.The more confident you are, the more attractive you will be to a guy.Guys are attracted to confidence because confident girls don't need anyone to complete them.It is a big responsibility to be someone's other half.Someone to complement you is what you're looking for.If make-up helps you feel confident, then go for it.If a girl believes that she is worth the time and effort to groom herself and to look pretty, then she's probably worth his time as well.
Step 13: Don't get in the friend zone.
If he's not getting the hints, you have to flirt more seriously to stay out of the friend zone.When you guys are walking, lean in a little closer than you need to, because he accidentally bumped his hand.Tell him if you really want him to like you.Make sure it's at the right place and time, and do it with a flirtatious tone.Being friends is a good way to get to know someone.The "friend zone" is a myth in a lot of situations.A lot of friends turn into relationships later.You like each other if you do.Simple as that.
Step 14: Tell him you like him.
Guys like a straightforward approach.They like to know that someone likes them.It will make it easier to get out of the way.Tell him you like him if he likes you.It's his loss if he says he doesn't feel the same.
Step 15: Stay in touch.
It can get intense quickly if you let someone know that you like them.It can be awkward to let someone know you like them.That's okay.If you want to chat a little bit outside of your one-on-one interactions, it's a good idea to reach out via text or social media.You can continue to get to know each other better by doing this.Text him occasionally, but not often.He needs to be comfortable texting you all the time.Take it back a step.Just be friends for a while.It's great if he is comfortable with it.