You want to go to the next step with your boyfriend, but you are too scared to tell him.Many people have been in your shoes.If you want to be closer to your special person, please read on.
Step 1: Understand what your boyfriend does and why.
If your boyfriend is into sports, it's most likely because he plans to be good at the sport, he enjoys watching a game, or sports are just fun for him.If he is more of a nerd, it's most likely because he likes math and science and is smart.He might be interested in getting good grades in the future.
Step 2: He can watch a game or talk about sports.
Every man is a sports fan.They like it when a lady watches a game and talks about it.It is a turn-on.
Step 3: Become good friends with your boyfriend's friends.
Seek to enjoy what he does.Friends are most likely to be into the same sort of things if your partner enjoys certain things.They might all be sports fans or in a math group.Put yourself with him and his friends.If you don't like some of his friends, hang around them and be nice.You can be tolerant with any of them.
Step 4: Talk to your boyfriend.
You should tell him about your day.If he had a bad day, find a way to cheer him up.Let him know that you care about him by giving him a hug.
Step 5: Don't assume that things are getting better in the relationship.
Asking him if he wants to take the relationship to the next level is not a problem if you feel comfortable with each other.If you want to be certain that he wants to commit to you in a relationship, you shouldn't do this in the very beginning.
Step 6: If you know that he's okay with it, break the touching rule.
Look at how he reacts to playful pushes or pokes.If he flirts back, that's great.He will probably get annoyed if you're too persistent.
Step 7: Offer good advice.
Give your boyfriend some suggestions if he can't find anything to write about.If he wants to draw a picture or write a poem, give him ideas on what to write about.Don't advise him where he's not interested in your opinion or interfering in his family and friend relationships.
Step 8: Show your boyfriend that you care.
Go to his games if he is a sports player.He knows you are there for him only if you cheer as loudly as you can.
Step 9: Make time for things you enjoy.
If you don't have much to do, you can offer to play basketball or throw a ball around with him.Join in if he's going kayaking, making miniatures or going to a rock wall climbing class.Some activities to be shared with you might be new to you.
Step 10: You can spend more time with your boyfriend.
If you want to spend time with him alone or with friends, invite him over to your place.Obey his personal space at the same time.It's perfectly okay for you to have time alone and away from each other.
Step 11: Make him feel good about himself.
Buy him a gift.Give him a compliment.Joke with himHe will feel more comfortable around you as you develop more bonds with him.
Step 12: You should give him reason to trust you.
Don't cheat on him if you have faith in the relationship.He will take notice if you have trust in him and his actions.Communication and trust are the most important parts of a relationship.A lack of trust will bring a relationship to the gutter.
Step 13: Take note of how he treats you.
Does he try to make you feel better if you are having a bad day?Does he make you happy or sad?Is he respectful of you?You are on your way to reaching the next step with your boyfriend if that is the case.