Talking to a girl about your feelings can be difficult if she catches your eye.Keep your cool!It can be difficult to ask her out, but take a few deep breaths and think positively.Tell her you want to know more about her.Don't put too much pressure on yourself, just have fun and enjoy each other's company.
Step 1: To act naturally, try to have confidence.
Positive thoughts about yourself will make you feel confident.You should tell yourself, "I've got this!"The more comfortable you are in your own skin, the easier it will be for you to talk to the girl you like.She might get uneasy if you are nervous and jittery.If you want to relax before starting a conversation with a girl you like, try taking slow, deep breaths for a few minutes.
Step 2: Use a joke or open-ended question to break the ice.
A joke is a good way to break the ice, but you don't want to be cliché.You could ask a question if you are not sure about your timing.If you say something, make sure it is open-ended.You could say, "So how about our math homework last night?"I thought the problems would never end because it was so long.Introduce yourself, if you don't already know her.Say something like, "Hey, how are you?"Sam is in your history class.What do you think about Mr. Jones going after Tyler?
Step 3: Pay her a compliment.
Think of a compliment that focuses on something you like about her, like her sense of humor, style, or intelligence.She will feel more special if she's said nice things about her looks or body.I saw the school play last week, and you did a great job!You have a beautiful voice.If you want to compliment her looks, keep it respectful.Tell her that she has beautiful eyes, or simply say, "You look really nice."
Step 4: If you can, do your best to fill the silences.
Try to keep the conversation going because you don't want to lose her interest or awkwardness.It would be helpful to think of topics to talk about.Asking questions that prompt more than a simple "Yes" or "No" can help keep the conversation going.Asking questions like "What do you like to do for fun," or "Do you have any pets," will help you fill in an awkward pause.Give her space if she is giving you one-word responses.If she doesn't want to talk, remember not to take it personally.Maybe she is having a bad day.
Step 5: Don't come on too strong.
You don't have to have a long, deep conversation with her when you first see her.A quick chat or wave is better than begging for her attention.Don't put all of your cards on the table because an air of mystery can be attractive.Try to be aware of your words and body language.When you are nervous, it can be easy to talk too much.Try to be cool, calm and collected.Don't go over the edge with the hard-to-get game.Don't flirt with other girls in front of her in order to make her jealous.
Step 6: Let her know that you have feelings for her.
Get a little more flirtatious when you start talking to her more frequently.If you are in school with her, walk her to her next class and compliment her a little more.Try to let things happen naturally and get more at ease being around each other.
Step 7: If you want to ask her out, choose a stress-free place.
She isn't going to be receptive if she's fighting with her parents, stressed out about a test, or has a lot on her plate.When things are less frenetic, ask her out.You might be having lunch with her or chatting after work.She is in good spirits if everything seems to be going well.
Step 8: Ask her in the mirror.
If you want to avoid getting tongue-tied, think of a rough script.Try to remember what you want to say to her while practicing in the mirror.You don't want to come off as robotic or over-rehearsed, but have an idea of what you are going to say.
Step 9: Keep things light-hearted, but be honest and direct.
Get to the point!It's important to be bold and express what you want.Take a deep breath, do your best to stay cool, and tell her that you like her and would like to go out with her.It would be fun to hang out more with you, I think you're really cool.While you should be honest, don't confess your deep love for her or say you cannot live without her.Just let her know that you enjoy spending time with her and want to get to know her better, and keep things low-key.
Step 10: If she says no, don't take it personally.
Handle rejection gracefully if she isn't interested.I gave it a try, and it's okay if she isn't right for me.It's okay to be sad, but remember that these feelings will go away in time.Try to listen to music, exercise, or do an activity that you enjoy if you're down in the dumps.You can blow off steam by talking to a friend or relative.Two people don't click.That does not say anything about who you are as a person.She may have a particular type or she may just have lots going on in her life right now.Do your best to be chill about it if the answer is no.
Step 11: She has interests.
You can find out what you have in common by asking her about her likes and dislikes.You can show your interest in getting to know her by listening to her talk about her passions.When you talk in person, hold eye contact and make gestures to show you are paying attention, like nodding your head or saying "Uh-huh."Don't text other people while she's talking.You don't need to enjoy everything she likes if you enjoy the same music or hobby.Don't say you like something because she likes it.respect your differences and share what you have in common with each other.
Step 12: Come up with your own jokes.
Try to be patient as jokes develop inside.Take a mental note of what makes you crack up.Bring it up when you see her and have a good time.It is possible to strengthen your connection by sharing jokes and laughing.You don't want to play an inside joke so much that it becomes boring.If a silly word or catch phrase makes you both laugh, you don't need to bring it up every now and then.
Step 13: Hang out in low-stakes situations.
You can either go for a bike ride or take a stroll in the park.Ask her if she would like to walk your dogs together.In addition to hanging out one-on-one, you could also hang out with friends, which can help you spend time together without putting too much pressure on yourself.You might feel awkward when you first start hanging out.Going out with friends can help you get used to each other.Fun, exciting activities that you both enjoy are included in other good date options.You can go to an amusement park, play video games, or skate.
Step 14: If she is having a rough day, give her your support.
Let her vent her feelings if she is sad or angry.If she wants to hear what you have to say, give her your ear.It's important to offer each other emotional support in a relationship.It helps a connection grow from simple attraction to deep love.