Older women are more confident and experienced.How do you get one?When you're a teenage guy trying to impress someone older than you, the odds are against you.If you show the woman that you're the right person for her, she'll fall in love with you.These steps will show you how to catch the eye of an older woman.
Step 1: Be positive.
Confidence is a must if you want to attract an older woman.If you're a teen, you still don't know who you are, what you want to do with your life, and how you fit in.This stuff shouldn't come to the forefront when you see or hang out with an older woman.She should see the positive thoughts you have about yourself.You love who you are, you love hanging out with other people, and you enjoy having a good time.Stand tall and proud if she sees you.Don't try to fit in all the time, show the woman that you're comfortable with yourself.You should act like you know what you're talking about, even if you don't.As you get to know the woman or older girl, you can bring those out, but you should come out strong.Older guys who are in college or starting their careers are your competition.The woman will move on if she sees that you're still trying to find yourself.
Step 2: You should be assertive.
Being assertive is part of being confident.Being assertive means that you can tell people what you want, as long as you're comfortable with it.You should be clear about your needs, whether you want to get to know her, take her out, or have a great idea for a date.She'll start to think that you don't have much to contribute if you defer to her all the time.If you notice her, let her know you like her.Don't be shy about it.If the timing is right, you can smile at her or approach her.Don't be afraid in the corner.Even if it's only to say hello.If you want to be assertive, you have to say what you mean.If you only introduce yourself, be clear.It's okay to be nervous, but try not to look at the floor because she is too beautiful.
Step 3: Get some training.
It's not easy to get experience when you're only sixteen years old.If you want to understand what life is really all about, you shouldn't try to hook up with as many girls as possible.The older woman will see that you have something to teach her and you should do what you can to broaden your horizon.Things will get old fast if she feels like she has to teach you to be an adult.Travel is one way to get some experience.Whether it's to Costa Rica on a service trip or just to visit a relative a few states away, spend your summer or spring break traveling to a new place.The world is bigger than your hometown if you see more places and people.Date.You shouldn't date girls just to get experience, but dating even a girl or two can help you understand how to deal with women, and can also give you some experience when it comes to hooking up.If it's obvious that you've never had another girlfriend, an older woman will be less likely to date you.You can engage in a variety of activities.If baseball is the only thing you love, you may run out of things to talk about with the older woman.If you want to develop a passion for a variety of subjects, join the French culture club, volunteer on Sundays, or just do a few things.
Step 4: Don't be immature.
If you want to impress the woman, you have to act mature when you're a teenager.If you're a few years younger than the woman, the difference in maturity levels may be more noticeable.You should work on controlling your moods, having reasonable reactions to disappointing or upsetting situations, and minimizing loud noises that may go over well with your friends on the football team.Being in control of your feelings is part of being mature.The woman will think you're throwing a temper tantrum if she sees that you don't get easily angry or upset.Not complaining about every little thing is a part of being mature.The woman will think that you don't have a good sense to appreciate all of the wonderful things in your life if you complain about the minor things.Don't gossip about your friends or other people.She will think that you're not mature enough to respect people who aren't in the room if you gossip too much.Be nice to everyone you see.If you take her out, be nice to everyone.This is a sign of maturity.
Step 5: Don't let things get boring.
You shouldn't forget to keep things fun, but you should work on developing the characteristics that would make you appeal to an older woman.One of the reasons she likes hanging out with younger guys is that they have less baggage than older guys and she doesn't have to worry about college classes, jobs or anything like that.There is a difference between goofing off and being immature.Don't be afraid to show her the silly aspects of your personality because every woman loves to goof off.Make her laugh.If your sense of humor is one of your best features, don't hide it because you worry it will make you look immature if you try to make her laugh.You'll be fun if you pick decent jokes.It should be light.You don't have to discuss the most serious thoughts you have at night when you meet her.The rest will come later.
Step 6: You can use your age to your advantage.
It's not a bad idea to think of being younger as something that appeals to the woman.The woman likes boyish good looks, amazing dance moves, and goofy jokes.Don't say, "I know I'm only seventeen, but...", act like you love being seventeen and that the world is your oyster.You can impress the woman if you talk about all of the things you will do and how excited you are.You should impress her with your enthusiasm.It's a good thing that you are more energetic than her own age.
Step 7: Don't talk about topics that make you sound old.
You can't hide your age, but you should avoid topics that make her realize how young you really are.If she's a college student and you're only in high school, then you shouldn't talk too much about the game or class.You don't have to hide high-school like aspects of your life.Make her see you outside your high school bubble by talking about your family, friends, and current events.If you're a freshman and she's a senior at the same school, talk about what you want to do later in your studies instead of what it is like to be brand-new.She may have a lot of growing up to do if she's constantly reminded that you're only a freshman.
Step 8: Be your own person.
An older woman will have more varied interests and a more busy schedule.You want to spend as much time with this woman as possible, but you need her to see that you have your own schedule, friends, and needs.If you start dating each other seriously, then you may start spending a lot of time together, but if you're just trying to get her attention, you can't be clingy.Don't say, "When can I see you again?" if she hangs out with you.Right away.Ask her out a few days later.Discuss your schedule.You have a lot going on as well.She'll be less eager to hang out with you if she thinks you only play video games and wait for her to call.
Step 9: Don't be a jerk.
You have to be a gentleman if you want to treat an older woman.This may be a new concept to you, but it really means that you should treat her like a lady and give her kindness and respect.If you pick her up in your car, keep the door open for her if you go to a restaurant or other location.Take her coat and hang it up if she comes over.Show up on time or a little early is one of the ways to be a gentleman.She means a lot to you.Always complement her.Tell her she is beautiful, or that she may look that day.This will win her over if you tell her what you really think.Don't spit, scratch, burp, or do other un-gentlemanly things.Always look nice.You should shower, groom yourself, and wear well-fitting clothing.This will show her how hard you've worked to see her.On nice dates, take her out.She should not be taken to the local Burger King.Even if you don't have a lot of money, you should still try to do something romantic, even if it's eating at a dimly-lit sushi bar or taking a long walk.
Step 10: Show your interest in her.
Don't make her think that being with her or talking to her means that you've won something.You should ask her about her interests, what she likes to do on the weekends, and the relationships that mean the most to her.She's four years older than you, so you don't have to interview her, but you should show that you want to know who she really is.Ask her how her day was.It can be as simple as that.Ask her opinion on a variety of topics, from her favorite bands to a new political candidate.
Step 11: Keep up the good conversation.
Older women can keep up a better conversation than younger women because they are more confident and experienced.You should make an effort to read the papers, watch the news, and read interesting literature if you want to be a morerounded person.You will have more to talk about if you do this.If you read something interesting, talk to her.See what she has to say.Discuss relationships.Don't talk about your ex-girlfriend if you have a relationship with your siblings or a close friend.Discuss your travel experiences.Discuss the interesting aspects of your trip even if you only spent a summer a few states away.It's a good idea to maintain a witty banter.Counter her comment with another funny statement if she says something funny.She will see that you can keep up.
Step 12: Don't talk about your age difference all the time.
You don't have to make fun of how old she is or how much experience she has when you're talking to a younger guy.Unless you want her calling you "junior" and thinking of you as a kid brother, you should avoid mentioning it too much.Don't bring it up in front of others.Keep it cool if you're introducing her to her friends.If you play your cards right, her friends won't notice that you're a bit younger.
Step 13: Don't forget to be who you are.
You may be so focused on impressing an older woman that you forget who you really are.She will see right through you if you act like a different person.A woman doesn't want to be with a guy who is faking it.You don't have to be someone else completely if you're building your maturity and developing desirable qualities that will make you appeal to a woman.If you have a secret hobby that means a lot to you, don't be afraid to tell her.She can see the best qualities of your friends.The friends who are your age must like you, so don't hide your best qualities completely.