Romance can be difficult when you're younger.People think you are too young and not prepared for it.Many of these situations are brand new and you may not know what to do.You might not know how to kiss someone for the first time.It is possible to have a dream kiss by following techniques and paying attention to the person you like.
Step 1: It's important to be social, happy, and confident.
In elementary school, people who are active and social are liked the most.Being aggressive could make you unpopular.Go out of your way to talk to other kids in school if you want to keep your temper under wraps.Staying away from people who are negative will increase your happiness.Try to make as many friends as possible by going out of your way to talk to kids in school.It is possible that joining a sport or club will make you more confident.If you are not known as the social kid in school, try to change that.Think about how you dress, talk to people, and interact with adults.Until you are a more social person, try to be more outgoing every day.
Step 2: During recess, try to hang out with them.
If you don't know the person that you want to kiss very well, hanging out with them during recess is a great way to get to know them.They should befriend everyone they hang out with if they are with a group of people.It is important to show the person you are interested in special attention, but don't make it obvious to everyone around you.Children in elementary school are allowed to work on their social skills.Talking to them about something they are interested in is a great way to become part of the group.This could be a video game, a funny video, or a musician.Ask about themselves.You can say, "Hey, I noticed that you have a Pokemon bag and I really like Pokemon."What's your favorite?Start a conversation about something that they are interested in.
Step 3: For class projects, join their group.
If your teacher allows you to pick your own partner or group for a class project, make sure to team up with the person you are trying to kiss.This will allow you to speak to them.Don't wait until everyone picks a partner.If you can, ask them if they would like to be your partner.Look at the person you want to partner with.It is possible that they will partner with you if they look back at you.
Step 4: At lunch, sit with them.
Try to sit at the same table as the person you want to kiss.It may be difficult if you are used to sitting in the same seat every day.If your friends are willing to move their seats, then you should have a table.If you have assigned seats, ask if you can change seats.
Step 5: You should go out of your way to be nice to them.
Say hello to them if you pass them in the hallway or after school.You don't have to stop for a conversation, but a smile and wave will go a long way.If you are at an event like a birthday party or school trip, make it a point to talk to them.Don't talk about kissing at first.You should talk to them like a friend.Something as simple as "Hello, how are you today?"It's possible to have a conversation with the person.They know you want to be friends if you do this every day.
Step 6: Discuss how they feel about kissing.
Younger people in elementary school tend to socialize with people they don't like romantically.It is important that you understand the person you want to kiss and how they feel about kissing.Ask about kissing.They may not be ready for a kiss if they seem grossed out or embarrassed.It is not necessary for you to give away your intentions to kiss them.Say something like, "My older brother kissed his girlfriend in front of me."You can ask their friends how they feel about kissing.
Step 7: Think about the way they treat you.
Someone will probably not want to kiss you if they don't like you.Think about the way you treat each other.It is a good sign that they don't like you if they tell you to go away or not to be around you.They may like you if they always go out of their way to help you.Don't give up hope if they tease you.Some kids tease other kids because they like them.It might be a sign that they like you even if they are teasing you.
Step 8: You should move on if the person doesn't like you.
It is not possible to force anyone to like you.Try to find someone else if your crush doesn't like you.It might be hard, but you shouldn't be ashamed.Many people will enjoy your company.To take your mind off the person you want to kiss, befriend other kids in school.Don't give up right away.Try to talk to them if they don't like you.
Step 9: Look at their body language.
If you want to kiss a boy, there are certain signs to look out for.There is a good chance he likes you if he fiddles with his shirt or socks, leans or stands with a wide stance, or seems nervous.If you are interested, she will tilt her head towards you, point her feet in your direction, or blush when she is around you.Don't assume every action is a sign of something.If this is how they act around you, only consider this advice.
Step 10: When you are around them, act confident.
If you are scared or self conscious, act confident.It will appear like you're confident even if you aren't.It is possible to do it naturally if you practice when you are around your crush.
Step 11: You can go to a spot on your own.
You do not want your kiss to be seen by everyone.Try to find a place where there isn't a lot of people.If the teachers see you kissing, you could get in trouble.It's a good place to kiss if you're hanging out outside of school or at a school dance.Try to stay out of the way when you do it.Do you want to go and hang out alone over there?We can talk and it's a lot quieter.
Step 12: Look at their eyes.
Romance depends on the eyes showing a range of emotions.When looking into the other person's eyes, pay attention to how they react.They may not want to kiss you if you look uncomfortable.The other person will be nervous.This is not the same as them not liking you.Do you enjoy being alone with me?Do you like me?Would you mind if I kissed you?They may want to kiss you as well if they are not pulling away and looking comfortable as you gaze into their eyes.
Step 13: Put your arm around them and hold their hand.
Make sure the person is comfortable with you touching them in a romantic way before you kiss them.The person feels uncomfortable if they pull their hand away.Don't force physical contact with anyone.It is illegal and could get you in a lot of trouble.
Step 14: You can touch their lips or cheek.
Don't think about the consequences when you kiss.It will probably be very difficult to do at first.You won't be able to kiss anyone if you never take the first step.It is important to kiss on the cheek for younger kids in elementary school.Before kissing on the lips, make sure you brush your teeth and use a mint.