It is not intimidating to flirt with an older woman.It is very simple and fun.It's important to know your audience.We put together a list of helpful suggestions and ideas you can use to flirt with an older woman.
Step 1: The tone should be fun and flirtatious from the start.
If you send her something that shows you were thinking of her, she will like it.Text her something special to your relationship with her if you have a history or have any inside jokes.It will warm her up and make her feel special.You could try to say, "I was just listening to Edith Piaf and thinking of you" or "Have you ever dated someone more than 10 years younger than you?"She's more likely to understand straightforward textspeak.She might not get a message like "WYD" if she hasn't been keeping up with popular text abbreviations.Text her, "What are you doing?"To play it safe.
Step 2: Keep the conversation going by asking questions.
You can ask an older woman about her life experiences.This is a great way to get to know her.You could ask her questions about places she's traveled, unique experiences, or jobs she has had in the past.If you want to know what your first job was, you could ask, "What is your favorite country that you've ever visited?"I am too chicken!Have you?It will be easier to flirt with her once you get the ball rolling.You may be able to use some of the information she gives you.You could ask if she's ever tried chocolate with red pepper.Just like you!
Step 3: A nude photo could make things interesting.
She will be interested in getting hot photos from you, even if she's older than you.She will send you a picture of your smiling face if you text her.If you feel comfortable texting her or you have been texting each other for a while, send her a more risque shot of yourself.Try adding a caption like, "Do you like what you see?" or "How do I look?" If you have just started texting her, you may want to hold off on a fully nude photo until you know each other and she seems open to it.
Step 4: Make her feel good about herself by being genuine.
Talk about something that she does well and give her props.If you want to compliment her appearance or something physical about her, go with something specific.Don't say, "You look hot for a woman your age!"You can text, "You've got incredible hair."It is always salon quality.You could also say, "I bet you're an amazing lawyer."I would not want you to file a lawsuit against me.You are so charming.
Step 5: To get her to open up, use a little cheekiness.
Older women can be a little more flirtatious than younger women.To see how she responds, text her something cute, fun, or naughty.Try a question like, "Why are you so cute?" or "How do you do so well?"
Step 6: Show her you are comfortable by keeping it fun and playful.
You can give her a teasing backhanded compliment with a little push- pull.Make it clear that you're joking when you pick on her.Say something sweet to lighten the mood and show you're interested in her.Send, "That sounds like a fun night!"I remember my first glass of wine, it was too much trouble for me to talk to you anymore.
Step 7: It's a good idea to use emojis as an effective flirting tool.
Don't be afraid to liven things up if you want to keep the conversation friendly.It's possible to add an extra layer of flirtation to your texts by using an idiocy.She might not know that emis are more straightforward than textspeak.If she asks, for instance, what are you having for lunch, you could say, "I wish I was having you" or " I'd rather be with you".
Step 8: You might seem desperate if you blow up her phone.
You don't want to seem thirsty if you have experience with a needy partner.Don't send 3 messages back to back if you double-text occasionally.After all, flirting is a two-way street.When you're face-to-face, keep your messages short and sweet.You can always text after she responds if you forgot to mention it.If she takes some time to respond, don't send messages like "hello?" or "you there?"It could make you stand out.
Step 9: Sexting for a woman you know is not a good idea.
Some women might be turned on by suggestive language.If you've been flirting with a woman you know well, go for it.It's important to see how she responds to your messages.They can be used as a guide to either keep sexting or clean it up.She's probably open to more sexting if she quickly texts back with a sexy message.If a lot of time passes before she responds or she starts talking about something else, she's probably not comfortable with it.