How To Prepare a Child for the First Day of School or Kindergarten
Your child's first day of school is a time for pause.When your toddler is no longer with you, your 4 or 5 year old is heading out to pastures.It can be difficult for a child and their parents to get over first day jitters, so removing them is a priority.Along with being alert for signs of a child's unease and aiming to relieve any potential for distress, good organization and planning will help some of the way.
Step 1: Go to the school in advance.
Students and their parents are encouraged to attend the school before term starts.The location, layout and look of the school can be learned from this method.The areas to look for are the classroom, bathroom and cafeteria.This will help you to discuss things with your child about the classroom, grounds, lunch area and other topics.
Step 2: The teacher is here.
It's important to meet the teacher in advance.You and your child will be comfortable knowing each other before class begins.Your child will recognize a familiar face on the first day of class.
Step 3: The school handbook can be obtained.
The expectations of the school should be known in advance.You should ask for a copy.If you have any questions about the rules, ask them as soon as possible.It is important to work through the rules with your child so that she or he is aware of what is expected.
Step 4: Shop together to get school supplies.
Sharing the experience of getting school supplies is a big part of the fun.You can allow your child to pick his or her own items to take to school if you follow the supplies list given to you by your school.Sometimes there will be room for a pencil case style or name sticker.You can personalize your child's things.If the school supplies most of the items, you can still buy some personalized items such as a pencil case or backpack.
Step 5: Obtain the class schedule.
You will be able to discuss the day's activities with your child.If you can link this with the things you do everyday, the child will be able to see the connection between daily schedules of things to do and routine that all of us practice.
Step 6: Be organized.
It is important to get into a routine of being organized from the beginning.The backpack should be packed with the school items.Pick the outfit to wear or lay out the uniform.It's a good idea to start preparing lunches early in the morning.Your child has a stake in making healthy lunches and will eventually evolve into packing his or her own lunch a grade or so down the track.Good habits last.
Step 7: Relax your child.
It's a good idea to spend time together before school starts talking about school, learning and friendship.You can boost your child's confidence by telling them positive things about school.
Step 8: Support but also let go.
On the first day, give lots of hugs and reassurance, but also be balanced and let go.This should be an exciting and fun opportunity for your child and he or she should feel more willing to attend if you have done a good job of emphasizing the positives of attending school.Be sure to be on time if you tell your child you'll be waiting for them at day's end.