A lot of comments, sounds, and gestures.A two year old can figure out something on their own.Abuse goes under the radar of a parent.Being an older sibling is hard.There is a way to survive.
Step 1: Don't argue.
It seems impossible, but it saves a lot of time and energy.Look at the fourth step if you have to fight.
Step 2: Keep cool.
Younger siblings can be annoying.It seems like it's an unusual talent.Pretend that they aren't there and keep doing what you're doing.They'll think they're talking to a wall.If you're doing homework, take extreme measures and either tell your mom or look at them and say, "Stop."I need to concentrate on my homework.
Step 3: Stick to a few things if you have to argue.
When talking to the parent, make eye contact and show that everything you're saying is true.Tell them what you know.The thing you think isn't very important can be a game-changing detail.Don't let your mother-in-law in.The "Sweet Look" is when they have big eyes and a curled lip.It doesn't help if you want to go to the ice cream store during an argument.Pretend the look isn't happening by keeping your straight face.Don't talk back if your mother falls for it."I'm telling the truth if she starts screaming at you."I didn't hit her or kick her.She got that when she was on the playground.Don't let your brother lie."Was that true?" is the number one outcome."No" is what you need to say.Don't lie if it's true.It will cause more trouble.
Step 4: Call for a truce.
You don't have to be friends with your sibling.Try to make peace!
Step 5: You have the right to be firm with younger siblings when you are older.
They can't tell you "You're going to take me to the shop" or "Get me my book."Now."They can't boss you all the time, but you can always tell them what to do.Both sides need to be respected.
Step 6: Don't allow siblings into your room.
They can destroy your belongings, get in the way of personal business, or trash your room.It is possible to put up a padlock.Tell your parents that you want your room to be like that.
Step 7: You can claim your side of the room if you share it.
Put belongings where they can't get to them if they say no.
Step 8: Ask your siblings to leave your room with authority.
Ask them to get out when they first enter your room."I am going to ask you nicely one more time, please get out", when they come in for a second time.They know you are not going to ask them nicely when they come back, so they mess with you.They will get bored and leave if you ignore them.