You like this guy.You can't publicly be with him because he likes you back.You can be with this guy, but no one knows but you and him.It's a formula for passion and trouble, but what about a little risk?
Step 1: Don't tell anyone the secret.
It's a good idea to tell your best friend about your secret romance at the time, but what happens if your friend accidentally asks you how your boyfriend is while your mom is driving you to school?It will most likely backfire if you tell others about your secret romance.
Step 2: You should treat your secret lover the same as everyone else.
Don't look like you want to be with them in public.The gossip mill will start when people become suspicious of something.You should treat your secret lover like a random person.This will cause suspicion as well, so don't avoid them like crazy.Don't treat them differently.
Step 3: You don't want to have things in writing.
Don't text or email each other romantic notes or post cute things on their Facebook profile.You never know if your secret lover's parents will read the texts on their cell phones.It's easier to deny things when they're not in writing.
Step 4: There are secret date spots.
If you're going out, don't go to the coffee shop or the mall that your friends frequent.Nobody you know would be going somewhere far away.There's always a chance that you'll see someone you know, but reduce the chances as much as you can.
Step 5: Don't make a bad story.
If your parents ask you where you're going, don't say a pathetic excuse.If anyone asks you where you're going, have a good cover-up story planned out.You're going to the library, somewhere to study, the spa, a friend's house, etc.Don't let someone go with you.Tell them that you need to be quiet so you can concentrate, or you want a little time to yourself.
Step 6: The evidence should be covered.
Don't leave any evidence of your secret romance, whether it's lost underwear, an undeleted text message, or a lipstick mark.Don't come home with messed up hair, a face covered in lipstick, and no shoes.You should look the same way you did when you left, and cover up any evidence that you were together.
Step 7: Don't give any more information than you need.
Have you met any of your friends?Say "Yes".Don't say we're great friends."I know him very well!"You should not give out more information than is asked.This is important.
Step 8: Have a relationship!
Don't forget to have a romance if you keep the romance a secret.Go out, kiss, hug, etc.
Step 9: Do you want him to come over to your house?
Wait until your parents aren't home to find a private place to talk.Don't be boring!Don't be afraid to cuddle up!Take a deep breath and tilt your head up.The kiss will come if he is in the moment.Let him kiss you, don't try to kiss him.Make it a memorable kiss if the kiss happens.Don't be afraid to say no when you get cozy.
Step 10: It's a good idea to give yourself a pat on the back.
You are surviving your secret romance.Thank you!Future dates are difficult if you are in the middle of a secret romance.Follow up on the first date with a phone call and invite him to go to a place.No one will suspect your romance.