A silly, playful way to initiate contact is to tick your boyfriend.The best spots to tickle to get him laughing are when this flirtatious tactic is being used.
Step 1: Determine if it's the right place and time.
It can be difficult to know if tickling is cute or not.If you are in public, he might not appreciate giggling in front of a bunch of people.If you've just been fighting or angry, now isn't a good time to make him uncomfortable.Listen to what he's saying.He probably needs a hug more than he needs tickle torture if he's confiding in you that his dog died.Wait until you have room to wrestle and not hurt yourself.When you catch him by surprise, make sure he doesn't have a hot beverage or something that could hurt him.Even if you are annoyed that he's not paying attention to you, don't try to tickle him when he is playing video games or absorbed in something important to him.This is when tickling is not fun.He probably won't mind a tickle if you two are joking around and he's in a good mood.
Step 2: Do you know if he's ticklish?
If your boyfriend is not ticklish, your tickle attack will fail.To figure out where he's most ticklish, you have to explore first.If he laughs, you can poke him in his side, just above his hip or ribs, to see if he is vulnerable.Give him a hug and he's going to tickle himself.One of the more ticklish spots is this one.Run your toes along the bottom of his feet if he's laying down with his shoes off.The air will hit his ear when you kiss him on the neck.If he gets emotional on his neck, you can see it.
Step 3: Make sure your nails aren't sharp.
If you want to pierce his skin with sharp nails, you should do it on the back of his neck.If you plan to get into a tickle war, sharp nails may become painful.
Step 4: You can sit on the couch, bed, or ground with your boyfriend.
If he doesn't suspect anything, get close to him and cuddle or kiss him.
Step 5: Put your fingers under his arms.
As if you are scratching a dog behind its ears, move your fingers quickly.If you use too much pressure tickling, it can quickly become unpleasant and even painful.If you can get him to stretch his arms above his head, he will be fully exposed for an attack.He might copy you if you stretch first."Who wants ice cream?"Raise your hand.Unless he hates ice cream, he'll probably do the same.He's more vulnerable if you straddle him so he can't escape.
Step 6: Place your fingers on his sides.
Think of your hands as small animals.He will try to stop you by pressing his arms against his sides.People try to defend themselves by limiting their access.
Step 7: He's busy defending his upper body so make sure to keep the bottom of his feet straight.
To protect his feet, grab one foot in one hand and use the other to tickle it.You don't want to get kicked.He might kick you in his attempt to escape.
Step 8: Finish by blowing on the skin and nuzzling his neck.
It's a nice way to show him that this was a lot of fun.
Step 9: If it seems like he's not enjoying himself, don't tickle for too long.
Even though they are laughing, some people really don't like being tickled.You should stop if he tells you he's not in the mood, starts yelling, or kicks.Don't tickle him for more than 15 seconds.He is going to pee in his pants if he says he's laughing so hard.
Step 10: Prepare for a fight.
If you are dishing it out, you need to be ready to take it.Pull your arms tightly against your body when you stop tickling your boyfriend.It is possible that someone will initiate making out or fooling around after tickling.