You want to make the other person feel good about themselves when you're in a relationship.If you treat your boyfriend with respect, you can make that happen.If he has any ideas on how to be a better partner, talk to him.Use your words and efforts to make him feel supported and cherished in the relationship.
Step 1: Ask your boyfriend if he has any suggestions.
Your boyfriend can give you some pointers.Ask him how you can be better partners.I want to be a better partner to you.How can I do that?Try to make changes as needed by taking notes on what he says.You can't become a completely different person if you make changes that are realistic.
Step 2: An active listener is someone who listens.
Every partner wants their partner to hear them.Don't think about how you'll reply, focus on his words.He should be allowed to finish what he's saying and then paraphrase it in another way.Improving your listening skills is a solution for being a better partner.When he talks about how he wants to be treated, good listening helps you hear it.
Step 3: Consider his feelings.
You're hard-wired to think of yourself first, but you should consider how your boyfriend feels in certain situations.Stand in his shoes for a second.Doing so can help you understand him better.Imagine how you would feel if your boyfriend was upset about a bad grade on a test.If you were in the same place, what would you want from him?It comes down to practicing empathy.
Step 4: There is a pattern for giving and taking space.
Being together all the time is not realistic for modern relationships.Allow your boyfriend to take time for himself.It's a good idea to figure out how you'll give and take space ahead of time so neither partner feels hurt.Say something like, "I need a moment" or "Can I get lost in my thoughts for a while?"In addition to taking space in the moment, you should also establish a routine of taking time apart to pursue your interests or hang with your friends and families.Spending time apart isn't bad.Some separation is always involved in healthy relationships.
Step 5: Take care of yourself.
You can give your boyfriend a little extra by practicing self-care.Eat healthy, exercise, get plenty of rest, and schedule in "me time" each week.You can improve yourself as a partner when you take good care of yourself.
Step 6: It's a good idea to compliment your boyfriend.
As much as you can, tell your boyfriend what you like about him.Praise helps him feel good about himself and it also reinforces positive behaviors.Each time you compliment him, choose a different area to focus on.Your compliment should always be sincere.You don't want to say things that are not true.
Step 7: You need to make sure he hears you talking about him.
You should compliment your boyfriend as well as say nice things about him.Tell your best friend how cute he is or how he helped you study for a science test.Hearing positive words will make your boyfriend feel good about himself and your relationship with you.
Step 8: Support his goals.
Is your boyfriend aware that you're his No.1 fan?Show him how much he means to you by cheering him on.He could be told to show up at his band performances or become a great doctor someday.
Step 9: Show genuine appreciation.
It's important to let your boyfriend know you appreciate him.Say, "Thanks for helping me with those boxes, I really appreciate how you're always there for me."
Step 10: Let him know how much you care.
It's a good idea to give your boyfriend reassurance often.Tell him that you care.If that's true, say, "I don't know what I would do without you."
Step 11: Take an interest in him.
Through his interests, connect with your boyfriend.If he is crazy about a TV show, watch it with him.Buy him tickets to a concert if he likes a certain musician.Sharing interest in those that are important to him will bring you closer.
Step 12: Time with him should be prioritized.
Quality time is important for a healthy relationship.Your boyfriend shouldn't feel like he's in last place if you make time for yourself and others.Set aside time for the two of you each week.
Step 13: Personal disclosures should be made.
Sharing your thoughts, feelings, ideas, and experiences with your boyfriend will make him feel important.Disclosing creates a deeper bond between you.Tell him if you're scared about not getting the job you want or frustrated with your dad.Your boyfriend is more likely to reciprocate if you disclose.The disclosures are based on how close you are.Start small and work your way up.
Step 14: Show trustworthiness.
Romantic relationships are built on trust.You can show your boyfriend that you are trustworthy by keeping his confidences when he spills the beans.