Finding the perfect guy isn't always easy, but once you do, you want to show him what he means to you.Learning how to keep things positive will make your relationship stronger.
Step 1: Plan fun dates.
How can you show your boyfriend that you love him?If you can, go out together and have a good time.It's important to keep a relationship fun and fresh, so make it a priority to date, no matter how long you've been together.You can go to new restaurants, bars, and dance places together.Find out what he likes to do with him.You can go camping, go hiking, or check out new movies.They should head to the comic book shop together.They should explore their interests together.Pick a sport that you both enjoy.Cool down with some milkshakes after playing tennis.That's a great date.Are you on a budget?He can spend the night in or make sandwiches and watch a game.A lot of guys will be fans of this date.Sometimes, let him pick.It sounds great for you to go to a fancy restaurant and see a ballet, but he might be more interested in checking out a concert and grabbing some burgers.Try to divide them up as much as possible.
Step 2: You should get to know his friends.
Your guy will show a side of himself that you don't know, and he will have a close relationship with his guy friends.It is possible that he will act more natural around his male friends while he is with you.If you want to know the real him, you should know his friends.If you want to entertain, invite them over for a meal or some beers.If you're invited, join him on one of his handouts and hang out with the guys.It's fine if you don't like his friends, but keep it to yourself.Keep your date time separate and let him hang out with them when he wants.
Step 3: Surprise him with something.
If your guy gets the UFC pay-per-view and you bake him an apple pie, what would you do?You will be the best partner ever.Find out what your guy likes and do it whenever you can.In the morning before he leaves, bring him lunch or sneak into the shower with him.You should be five minutes late.Birthdays and holidays are nice, but they aren't really surprises.It's a good idea to show your guy some love on a Wednesday.Surprises will be dependent on the guy.If you showed up at his place with a pizza, some guys would love it.Make sure you know your guy.
Step 4: It's a good idea to spend time apart.
It's important to spend a lot of time with someone, but you should also spend some time apart.If you love your boyfriend, let him hang out with his friends.When it comes to alone time, respect his privacy.Some guys want to hang out every day, while others need a lot of down time or time alone.That doesn't mean he's less fond of you.It could be that he needs some time alone.Schedule a lot of time with your friends when your guy wants to hang out on his own.You can either hang out with the girls or see your family.Trusting your guy to tell you the truth is part of love.When he's having fun with his friends, you don't need to text him fifty times to keep an eye on him.
Step 5: Talk.
Loving someone means that you get to know them on an emotional level that's deeper than you've ever known anyone before.If you want to love your boyfriend, you need to spend a lot of time talking.Ask him questions that will get him talking.See what he has to say.Take a peek at what he's like.Get to know him.Most guys will open up when you get them in private and talk about the right things.Talking about his hopes and dreams?Not much.He's passionate about certain subjects.You're talking now.If this is your first relationship, you should spend a lot of time talking to your boyfriend and getting to know him before you do anything.Just because you're going out doesn't mean you should have sex or send inappropriate pictures.
Step 6: Be positive.
A wrestling match between two angry scorpions is not a source of joy and love.It's important to maintain a positive and loving relationship with your boyfriend if you want to cultivate a close one.Tell him what you think about him.If you're attracted to something on the list, write it down.If you've forgotten, this will remind you.They try to handle bad things like an adult.If you have an argument, calm down and take a break.When you're calm, talk about things.
Step 7: Encourage him.
You should be in his corner if you want to love him.Encourage him to do his best if he is having a rough time.If he succeeds, compliment him and remind him that he's doing a good job.He should have a positive presence in his life.It should be hard to encourage.Maybe your guy needs to be encouraged to spend his time more wisely if he's been doing nothing but playing games.He will be more fulfilled if he talks to him about what he wants to do.
Step 8: Don't criticize.
If your guy is having a rough time, try not to criticize him.Positive encouragement will be better for most guys.If your guy is doing something you don't like, give him a hint by suggesting different ways of doing it, instead of rubbing his face in his failures.
Step 9: Talk to him.
When you speak your mind, guys appreciate it.Share your opinion about something.Say so if you're angry.If you can tell him what it is, he'll do it again.Don't be subtle with a guy, just say it.Understand his personal signals.Some guys will stop talking if they are upset.You don't need to ask "What's the matter?"Fifty times an hour.Some guys will open up if you give them some space.
Step 10: Make things easy.
Don't expect him to read your mind.If you're hurt by something he said, don't just give him silent treatment and expect him to figure it out.Be open and clear.Tell him the truth.That's a lot better than trying to sneak around.
Step 11: He's good at something and you should ask him to help you with it.
It's important for a guy to feel useful.Asking him to help you with things you don't need help with is annoying.
Step 12: When he's at his best, be with him.
It's easier to love someone if you see him at his best.Don't go to the football game with him and watch him scream and yell while you're bored, if you know you are going to hate it.When you have your own date time, spend your time doing something else.He doesn't want to be forced to do things.Don't bring him along to an office party if he's going to complain.You will have more fun alone.
Step 13: Love you.
It's important to be open to love.As you love your boyfriend, try to let go of anxiety.It's important to work on your anxiety and self-esteem separately from your relationship with your boyfriend.Talk to someone if you struggle with anxiety or other issues.Talk to a doctor or a friend about your anxiety.Don't burden your boyfriend with your issues if it hurts your relationship because you can be open and honest with him.It's important to look your best for yourself and your boyfriend.If it would make you feel more confident and loving with your boyfriend, make some small changes.If it will help, get in shape or dress up.
Step 14: You should move at your own pace.
Before you can show your love to your boyfriend, you need to make sure that you are old enough and responsible to do so.Practice safe sex and talk to your boyfriend before having sex.If your boyfriend will only be with you if you have sex before you're ready, or send him pictures on your phone that you don't want to, break up with him.He is manipulating you.Love yourself enough to stand up for yourself and move at your own pace.
Step 15: Sometimes, initiate.
A lot of people think that the guy will always start the kissing part of a relationship.This doesn't have to be the case.Don't wait for your boyfriend to make a move if you want to show your love for him.Don't be afraid to make a move if you're feeling love.It will help you to feel closer to him.
Step 16: Don't be mean to your boyfriend.
Try to remember what it was like when you first got together, even if you've been together a while.Tell him that he's going to turn you on.Tell him what you want to do.If you want to turn your boyfriend on, leave him little notes throughout the day.You will keep the sexual tension up until you get back to your place.Tease him as well.When you're out in public together, whisper in his ear and give him a kiss on the side of the neck.Drive him crazy.
Step 17: It should be spiced up.
If you don't work on your love life, it can get boring very quickly.If you want to love your boyfriend, you need to find ways to keep your life exciting and fresh.Try to have sex in different places.Don't do it in the same place if you want to.Try new things.Try to experiment with something.Prepare for a role-play.Find out what he likes by talking about it.All guys are not the same.It's better to find out from your boyfriend what makes him happy than to read about it on the internet or in a magazine.