Even if you have an amazing partner, being a good boyfriend isn't always easy.A good boyfriend knows when to talk, listen, give her space, and offer advice.You need to make them want to be a better partner and be someone they can trust.A good boyfriend knows the job is never done.
Step 1: Be honest.
Honesty is the best policy in any relationship.You'll be less likely to run into trouble if you're honest from the beginning.You should let them know what they need to know.If you had a serious relationship, you can let them know without revealing too much.You should temper your honesty with kindness.You don't have to make every response seem like a compliment.If you want an alternative, offer it.If they ask you if you like something they are trying on, let her know that it might work, but you think the blue one is your favorite so far because it shows off their great eyes and their stunning personality.You should be comfortable with being honest and accepting of their honesty as well.You should be able to handle the truth if you want to be a good boyfriend.
Step 2: Trust them.
Give your partner reason to trust you.The foundation of your relationship should be trust.This will allow you to create a more open relationship with each other, as well as creating a very good understanding of what your mate wants, feels, and needs.If you tell your partner something that a lot of people don't know about you, they will trust you more.If you show that you care and are concerned if they tell you something personal, you can secure their trust in you.
Step 3: You should contribute equally to conversations.
Try to get some balance in the conversation.They may think you're not interested in them if you are too quiet.They may think you are self-obsessed or plain impolite if you're too quiet.The conversations are about taking and giving.It's the same for relationships.They don't succeed when they're one-sided.There will be times when you talk a lot or retreat when something bad happens.Aim for a balance of conversation on the whole.
Step 4: You should be a good listener.
Listen to them instead of thinking about the next thing you want to say.Think about what they are saying.They always seem interested in their presence.A conversation with your partner isn't just acknowledging, it's also about remembering.Make a mental note of what your partner is telling you.If they have told you something before and you don't know what they're talking about, you will know and they will be unhappy about it."Listen" to their non- verbal conversations as well.Even if they won't say it, you can tell when something is bothering them.What is their expression, their body language, and how they keep twirling their hair telling you?
Step 5: You should learn to compromise.
Communication is a big part of compromise.If you and your partner can't disagree without a fight or one person giving in to the other's needs, then you have a problem.To be good at compromising, you should be able to talk about your needs and wants while understanding where your partner is coming from.You can make a pros and cons list with your partner after you discuss your thoughts on a certain situation.You and your partner will have to compromise.As long as you're taking turns, that's okay.If they pick the movie for date night, you should go to dinner and dessert at the same time.When you have a disagreement, use a calm, even voice.No matter how angry you become, never hit them.If you have to, walk away and come back when you can talk rationally.
Step 6: Be supportive.
Being available, listening attentively, and showing interest in the things they tell you can show support.Make an effort to be present and attentive to their needs when you are together.Being supportive will help strengthen the sense of security in the relationship.They'll support yours if you support their goals and dreams.When they have to study for a big exam or finish college applications, or when they're stressed about anything else that can affect their future, be there.Pick up lunch or give them a ride to class if they're having a busy week or month.
Step 7: You should be sympathetic.
It should mean something to you.A relationship is about sharing experiences and being supportive and it doesn't matter if it's for them or not.Try to understand where they're coming from by putting yourself in their shoes.Don't dismiss their feelings because you think it's not that big of a deal.When you comfort them, confirm that you are listening and sound sincere.Try to think in a different way if you don't feel like you're sorry.Think about it from their point of view.They might just want to cry and be comforted.Don't try to fix them right away.Wait for them to deal with their emotions before being practical.It's important to ask if they want to talk about it.You want them to see that you care.Don't ask if they're ready to talk about it.
Step 8: Show affection frequently.
You can show your partner that you love them by being affectionate.Small touches, hugs, a kiss, and maybe a public display of affection are just some of the ways of connecting through affection.You don't want to make them uncomfortable.If they're not in a good mood, don't kiss them.A light touch is appreciated a lot.If your partner is a romantic, after seeing them for the first time in a couple of days, say, "I missed you..." and give them a hug.Give them a light kiss on their lips, forehead, and neck just to show you appreciate their presence.You can kiss their hand and bring it up to your lips.If you don't know how your partner feels about public displays of affection, be discreet.Not every person is into holding hands.
Step 9: You should appreciate their beauty.
When they make extra efforts to look beautiful, but also make sure they know they can relax and be with you, give them extra praise.Don't make them feel like they have to look like gods.If they've just woken up, you should let them know that they look pretty.Let them know that you notice and that they look great if they get a new haircut or outfit.It isn't as superficial to appreciate someone's looks.Regardless of the situation, someone will look beautiful to you if you truly care about them.Let your partner know that you feel this way.
Step 10: Generously compliment them.
You should compliment your partner as often as you can.Compliment them on how they are.They will know that you care about their appearance and what's on the inside.When you give them reasons to be confident, they are more likely to do so.You should go beyond the ordinary statements.Don't say, "You look nice."Say "That makes your eyes shine" or "Your haircut really suits the shape of your face."The more specific you are, the better the compliment.A small, seemingly silly compliment can be meaningful.Confidence-builders are people who say things like "you really have beautiful handwriting" or "You're awesome at parallel parking."You are paying attention to them.
Step 11: You can give gifts at special times.
A healthy relationship can't survive on gifts alone.Giving gifts that are thoughtfully and deliberately can demonstrate your interest and affection.Think about a birthday, Valentine's Day, Christmas, or anniversary gift.It doesn't need to be expensive, just consider who they are and their likes, if you choose a gift that is reasonable and thoughtful.Adding their name to a necklace, or a pendant representing something they care about, is a special touch.When you're out together, notice their interests.They might say something like "I wish I could go for a horse ride" in a shop window.Experience gifts can be more exciting and fun than a list of things.It's possible to get them a gift just because.Pick something up out of the blue and give it to them.The gift is so unexpected and delightful that it has a great impact.
Step 12: Take your relationship to the next level.
One of the most comforting aspects of a relationship is familiarity, so try not to fall into a rut of always doing the same things.If you have one or two regular things you enjoy doing together, don't make the regular the only thing you do.Try visiting new places, going to different parts of town and giving new activities a try.Even if the new activities don't go as planned, at least you've shared the experience and gotten to know one another better.You keep the excitement in your relationship by mixing things up.You are creating memories that will last a long time.If you want to surprise your partner, you can do anything from dancing without music to bringing them a tub of Lego bricks and encouraging them to build something that represents the two of you.Take a surprise trip.You can tell them what to pack without saying where you're going.Use your best judgement about their preferences.Maybe they'll like the mystery and excitement of going to an unknown location.If they mention that they've never checked out a national park or quirky town not too far from where they live, take them there without telling them where you're going.They'll like the fact that you took the time to listen to them.
Step 13: Take care of yourself.
Don't be dependent on your partner, but let them know they are appreciated and needed.Set goals and work hard.If you're not taking responsibility for yourself, you can't be a good boyfriend.Take pride in your appearance and how you present yourself.They will appreciate that you conduct yourself well and make yourself look good at the same time.If they feel like they're always nagging you to do one thing or another, they won't have fun in the relationship.They don't want to be your mom.
Step 14: Allow them and yourself some space.
It doesn't mean they are yours just because you have a significant other.You can have a great relationship without being attached at the hip.They'll like you even more if you allow them to pursue their own interests.Find a balance that allows you to spend time alone, with your friends, and with each other.When you see each other again, spending time with your separate friends will make you appreciate them even more.When you are together again, keeping different social schedules will give you something to report back on.Continue to have separate interests as well.Before you met, keep up with your hobbies, sports and other interests.You should not force them to watch football with you if they don't want to, and you should only go to yoga with them if you like it.You can grow together in love and have a perfect relationship if you maintain your separate interests.