It's natural to think you'll have to go above and beyond for your middle school dance, because years of movies and television have shown dances as a time where everyone is at their best.Your friends and classmates are all thinking the same thing.It is possible to be one step ahead of the curve by recognizing dancing and the dance itself for what it really is - a fun event to spend time with your friends and make new ones.
Step 1: If you want to dance with someone, ask if they can do it with you.
A dance partner is a must for many slow dance songs.Asking if you want to dance with me is all you have to do.If the other person agrees to dance with you, choose an open spot on the floor.Don't push as to why someone declined your offer to dance.Say "Okay" or "No problem" and move on.There may be multiple reasons why that person doesn't want to dance.It is accepted for girls to ask guys to dance with them if they are a girl.You may be surprised how many guys prefer it.
Step 2: Put your hands on your partner.
Nowadays, where you put your hands depends on the gender of your dance partner.Girls usually place their arms around their dance partner's shoulders or neck.Boys should hold hands with their dance partner.It depends on who places their hands first, if you are dancing with someone who is the same gender or not.The first dancer will lead the second dancer.
Step 3: When dancing, remember the distance between you and your partner.
Asking your dance partner early on if you should be close or far is the best way to find out.A simple question like "Is this okay?" will save you some embarrassment.Take a moment to notice where your partner's feet are.Not stepping on anyone's toes will be easy when you slow dance.Different schools have different ideas about the distance between dance partners.Look at how other dancers are spacing themselves apart.
Step 4: After the song is over, thank your partner.
It is a common practice to thank your dance partner for the time they spend with you.Again, don't think too much about what to say, a simple "That was fun" or "Thanks for dancing with me" will suffice.It is not taboo to ask the same person to dance to another song, but it is best not to do so immediately.Try dancing with other people.
Step 5: During your first dance, keep things simple.
Don't try out complicated moves you've seen in a music video if this is your first time dancing.No one is expecting you to do that, and many of your classmates are thinking too much about how they look.imitate your classmates movements to blend in.At your middle school dance, most DJs will play simple, high energy songs with an identifiable rhythm.Don't worry if a song has a dance associated with it.Take a look at the motions your classmates perform.There is nothing wrong with sitting it out if it seems too much.
Step 6: Prepare to dance with the two-step.
The two-step is a basic dance move.Your classmates will probably do the two-step without knowing what it is.The two-step is enough for most people.If you want to move your left leg to the right, you have to do it first.In reverse, repeat the motion with the left leg.The music has a rhythm to it.If you want to change things up, you can try the triangle two-step, where your foot moves back and forth to form a triangle.To the rhythm of the song, repeat with the other leg.
Step 7: Focus on the bounce and plant your feet.
If the dance floor is crowded or you don't want to step on anyone's toes, you can keep dancing with the bounce.If you bob your body to the beat, the bounce is much easier than the two-step.You can mix it up by changing how intense the bounce is, swaying your arms, and bobbing your head.
Step 8: Move your arms back and forth.
Many dancers don't know what to do with their arms even if they have the rhythm down.Keeping one arm raised and the other raised is an easy rule to follow.Your arms should move at every beat.Move your right arm up at the next beat if your left arm is up.Make sure your arms are out of your body.If you keep them too close to your chest, you will look stiff.
Step 9: If you already know how to dance, don't show off.
Many of your classmates can feel intimidated when you steal the spotlight, because it may feel great to pull off a flip in front of everyone.You can encourage others to dance with you if you are an experienced dancer.Correcting your classmates on-the-spot is more likely to discourage them.It is possible to make a more fun night for everyone.
Step 10: You can dance with your friends.
A lot of people at the middle school dance want to dance with someone they like, but don't count your friends out.Getting on the floor with your friends is enough to have a good time.You should be aware of your surroundings and courteous to other people.People don't have room to dance if you spread out too much.
Step 11: When you feel tired, take a break from dancing.
You don't want to exhaust yourself early on at your school dance.Keep up the energy by giving yourself some rest between dances.Taking care of yourself requires hydration.You can get glasses of water for free if your school has tables nearby.If you need a break from being around people, ask a chaperone where you can go outside.Sometimes a little alone time is all it takes to get back into the swing of things.
Step 12: Don't worry about being judged when you are dancing.
Almost everyone in the room is going to be just as nervous as you are.People are more likely to join in when they see how much fun it is.If there is a chance that someone is causing trouble at the school dance, inform a chaperone immediately.They are bothering other people as well.Don't let anyone get you down and be confident in yourself.If you think negatively, replace it with positive thoughts.
Step 13: You should choose a dress or uniform that is comfortable for you.
If the middle school dance is themed as formal or semi-formal, you want to make sure you pick an outfit that you are comfortable in.When it feels too heavy, the fanciest dress won't mean much.Girls who are preparing for a formal event can choose form fitting dresses, sundresses, maxi-skirts, and skirts with matching shoes.The middle school dance chaperone may stop you from entering if the uniform is too revealing.slacks, dress pants, and dress shoes can be worn by boys who want to look formal.If the shoes are too tight, your feet will get sore quickly.If the dress code is casual, both boys and girls can get by with a simple shirt and jean combo with comfortable footwear.Don't feel like you're trapped with your gender when it comes to clothing.Girls and boys can wear tuxedos if the school allows it.
Step 14: Don't wear graphic shirts, open-toed shoes, and clothes that show too much skin.
Regardless of the dance rules, certain outfits or clothes are not advisable.Someone may step on your toes if you wear open-toed shoes.If you want to wear a graphic tee, make sure it's not offensive.Don't wear it to the dance if you're not going to school.Many dances have a dress code.Check with your school to find out what it is.
Step 15: To complete your look, style your hair.
Your hair plays a large role in looking nice.It is possible to boost your confidence at the dance by taking the time to wash, condition, and style your hair.Just after you finish your shower, style your short hair with pomade.If you have long hair, a style that tucks your hair into a bun will give you more freedom.