If there is a guy at school, you might have a crush on him.It is one thing to daydream about him, but it is even more difficult to actually approach him.There are a few ways you can approach him.If you keep reading, you will learn how to start talking to the guy you like and get to know him better.
Step 1: If you don't know much about him, you should start with some knowledge.
You can ask his friends which sports he plays, what his favorite class is, and which TV shows he likes to watch.If you know a few things about him, you don't have to get his whole life story.If you have classes with him, you can get this information as well.If he wears sneakers and basketball shorts, you can guess he plays basketball.
Step 2: You should tell him that you want to talk.
If you see him in the classroom, make eye contact with him.Give him a smile and then look away.He might take that as a signal to come over and talk to you if he is feeling confident.
Step 3: You may be a little nervous, but that is okay.
Don't be shy until you make it.Lift your chin and keep a smile on your face as you push your shoulders back.The better you look, the more likely you are to have a conversation with a cute guy.Waiting until the guy is alone will make you feel a little awkward.In front of a group of people is more difficult to approach someone one-on-one.
Step 4: It is a good starting point if you don't know each other.
If you haven't seen him before, just head over and say hello.Get a conversation started by telling him your name.Say something like, "Hey, my name is Alyssa."If you haven't spoken in a while, you could say something like, "Hey, I'm Brad."Remember me?We went to kindergarten together.
Step 5: You two may have friends that overlap.
Maybe you both play sports after school.It is easy to approach someone if you talk about something you are interested in.It was brutal on the math test last week.Do you play soccer?I saw you out in the field a few times.
Step 6: People like hearing nice things about themselves.
Tell him that you might be interested in him as you chat.You can talk about how smart he is, how good he looks, or how you like his outfit.Say something like, "I really like that sweater on you."You killed the debate in class yesterday.It is like you have been practicing.It looks great.
Step 7: Asking him out is both cool and casual.
You can ask if he has any plans, or you can set a time for later that week.If you do not want to call it a date, you don't have to.I was going to watch the football game after school.Are you doing anything next week?It would be fun to check out the bowling alley.
Step 8: This is a good option if you don't want to look intense.
You have to go to class, but you want to keep talking.He will be able to text you and you can talk about it later.You could say, "I have to run to class, but I want to finish our conversation."Is it possible for me to give you my number?You can text me later.
Step 9: It is possible to make it known that you like him.
If there is a dance coming up, ask the guy if he has a date.He might want to go with you if he doesn't.Homecoming is coming up soon.I don't have a date yet, but I was planning on going to the winter dance.Do you?
Step 10: It can be difficult to face a guy.
If you can't talk to him, try following him on social media.You can chat with him in person when you know him better by sending him a message.You could ask, "Hey, don't we have English class together?" or "You're on the football team, right?"Good luck tonight!