The hard part is turning women's dreams into realities.There are steps that you can take to improve your chances of finding him.There are things you can do to find the man of your dreams.
Step 1: Understand who you are.
If you know your own needs, you can distinguish them from other people's expectations.If you want to meet someone who will find your faults minor and forgivable, you need to be honest with yourself.A determined go-getter can be described as stubborn by someone who doesn't like her.If you want to find out if the criticism is true, try turning it into a compliment.You will be ready to meet someone else if you really know yourself.It will be more difficult to figure out what you want in a relationship if you're not sure who you are.Being aware of your flaws and being prepared to address them will help you address the issues that arise in a relationship.You'll be less likely to compromise if you think you're perfect.
Step 2: Don't expect things to be perfect.
All the better if you find it.You're not perfect.No one is.If you're looking for a perfect man, you won't find him.He will overlook your flaws if you are quick to forgive the little mistakes that don't matter.Understand what types of annoying habits annoy you so much that they're a deal-breaker and be up front about those, as well as those you don't think of as a big deal.If you can't stand a man who forgets an anniversary or an errand, you may have to look for someone else.You won't be able to see whether the man in front of you is right for you if you expect perfection.If you decide not to see a guy again after a first date, why not have a rule of going on at least two dates with him before you write him off?You may be overlooking some amazing qualities if you turn away a guy who doesn't meet all of your criteria.Being ready to settle is not the same thing as not expecting perfection.It's better to be alone than to end up with a guy who you think is better than being alone.
Step 3: Being alone is good.
If you want to find the man of your dreams, you have to be content with your own company.The myth of finding the man who completes you or makes you whole is not true, you should already feel like a fulfilled, well-rounded being, whose life will be improved by the presence of the right man, but not completed.A person who is happy on her own but ready for commitment should have enough meaning in her life.If you want to grow as a person and be ready to meet the perfect man, you should always designate some time each week foralone time.You are more likely to be dependent if you spend all of your time with friends or family.You will be more fun to meet if you enjoy your own company, because you'll be excited to talk about all the things that matter to you.
Step 4: Love you.
Another important point is this.You have to love who you are in order to find the man of your dreams.This doesn't mean you have to love everything about yourself, but that you're happy with who you are and what you can offer.Being aware of your flaws will make you a much more grounded person in a relationship.You don't have to brag about being an amazing person, just know that you are a worthwhile person.Finding the man of your dreams won't make you love yourself.You will need to work on your own to build self-confidence.Finding the right man will make you love yourself more.You need to start with self-love for this to work.
Step 5: Get some experience.
Before you can know what you want, you need to get some experience.If Mr.When you're barely out of high school or college, you shouldn't let Right get away, most likely you will have to wade through more than a few duds to find the diamond.You can get a better sense of your dating style by dating various men.You shouldn't date people just to get some experience, but you should think about being open minded and dating other people, even if it means stepping out of your comfort zone a bit.Getting some experience will help you understand how hard it is to find the perfect man, every man is different and has a lot to offer, but nobody's perfect.It will be harder to break this illusion if you expect perfection but never date.
Step 6: Define the qualities of a man.
You should definitely have a strong sense of the kind of man you're looking for if you see him from across the room.The qualities you want shouldn't be read as a check-list that has to be completed for you to find the right guy, but you should consider which qualities are a must-have for a perfect relationship.The person's relationship style is one of the things to consider.This is an important point to consider.If you want to find love but need time to hang out with your friends and do your own thing, then it's important that you find a man with similar needs.The person has interests.Is it necessary for your perfect man to love books, hiking, running, painting, tennis, or volunteering as much as you do?If you feel like your key interests must be shared by your loved one, then look for a guy who is enthusiastic about learning about them.There are personality traits.There are a few things that you can look out for in a person.Do you like to make people laugh and need a guy who does the same?Do you need someone who understands your emotions?Great.Don't force it if you cannot live without these qualities in a man.Social stance.Someone who brings you out of your shell is what you need.Are you outgoing and looking for someone to rein you in, or do you want someone with a similar social bearing so you're understood?You should find your social counterpart, even if you don't want to be with someone who craves attention as much as you do.You can get with your friends and family with him.Do you need a guy who will fit in with your friends and family or do you have to leave?If you spend most of your free time with your friends and family and need someone who can join right in, then this should be something you should look out for.There is a religion.You can narrow down your search if you need someone who shares your religion or is open to converting.Family values are important.You shouldn't try to change a man who hates children if you're certain you want to have two or more kids.
Step 7: Define your issues.
The qualities you don't want can be just as important as the ones you need.It's better to know what the dealbreakers are before you try to stick it out.There's no shame in admitting what these qualities are, they have to do with your priorities and what you are not willing to put up with.If you're missing that physical feeling, there are some qualities that may be your deal breakers.You may convince yourself that physical attraction can grow over time, but this may not happen for you.Houston, if you can't work yourself up to have the hots for your dream man, then you have a problem.There is disagreement over something that matters to you.If you're obsessed with Romney and your man is a tree-hugging liberal, you can either enjoy the constant disagreement or realize that this disagreement over core values just won't work for you in the end.It's geographical incompatibility.If you're an actress who has to live in LA, and he's determined to reside in Missouri near his family, or even live abroad, then you may never be able to make it work if you refuse to compromise.
Step 8: Get ready to compromise.
Though you should stand your ground on the things that matter to you, and be on alert for any red flags that tell you that the relationship won't work, you need to have an open mind when you start a new relationship.If you don't know what you're looking for when you meet the right man, get ready for the ride.The man only meets 8 of the 10 most important criteria, so don't reject him.You didn't know he had other qualities.If you're with a person but always have a fundamental disagreement that you keep coming back to, then you may be better off moving on than trying to fix something that is broken.It's all about balance in the end.You're off to a great start if you make each other happy and fulfill most of their needs.
Step 9: You should know where to look.
Knowing what you're looking for is only half of the battle.You won't get to meet your dream man if you spend all of your time at home or in the wrong bars.No one can predict where you'll find the man of your dreams, so being open to love is the most important thing.Knowing where to look can increase your chances of meeting him.Ask your friends if there are any great places to look at.If you ask your friends to set you up, you have a good chance of being set up with a person who is right for you.You can find someone who shares your interests.Look out for the guy who loves the same things as you, if you join a roadside runners, hiking, or acting club.Look for him at a party.Many people meet the loves of their lives at the party of a mutual friend; your friend can bring together various people who all generally get along and can click over a few glasses of wine.Be open to the invitation if your friend invites you to a party.Go online.You are in the 21st century, girl.Don't knock online dating until you try it, because more and more people are meeting their dream men online.
Step 10: The person you want to marry should be you.
What kind of person are you attracted to?What kind of characteristics does he need to have?The kind of person you like has to have those qualities as well.If you're very domestic, you may be happier with a man who doesn't complain about mowing the lawn or cleaning the gutter.If you want someone who is funny and confident, you don't have to be like your dream man.He can bring out your best qualities, but he can't force you to change.
Step 11: You should be an interesting person.
You can find a hobby that makes you stand out.Your chances of meeting the man of your dreams will increase if you surround yourself with people of the same interests.Do you have any hobbies?You may have unexpected talents if you try something creative.You can volunteer in your community.You'll be more likely to connect with a man if you're interested in more than one thing.You will be more likely to find a guy who connects with at least one of your interests if you have five.The more interests you have, the less likely you will be to be obsessed with finding the right guy, which will make you much more desirable.
Step 12: It's important to make a good first impression.
As time goes on, the guy will get to know you, but you should start off on the right foot.When you know you'll have a chance to meet men, make an effort to look nice.You never know when you'll find the man of your dreams, so you should always be ready with a smile and a joke, even if you are having a bad day.If you dress to express a style like Goth or medieval recreation, you'll have a better chance of finding someone, but it may put off mainstream guys.Mainstream guys might not be attracted to women with paint in their hair.
Step 13: Don't be codependency.
A codependency relationship brings out the worst in both partners.If you were raised in a co dependent environment, you should seek counseling and learn to overcome codependency before getting serious about a romantic relationship.You should take your time instead of enduring the emotional and physical abuse of codependence.That leads to abuse.You have a big problem if you are willing to give up everything you love about yourself for the man you're with.
Step 14: Don't be fake.
If you try to be someone you're not, you may get typecast in a role that doesn't include all that you are.If you dress casual and dress to the nines when you meet him, he may expect you to dress like that all the time and be disappointed once you're together.If you hook up with him and pretend you don't like books, you may end up spending the rest of your life having arguments every time you order from Amazon.He will feel like you were trying to trick him if you try to be someone else.
Step 15: Don't push too hard.
Staying with the man of your dreams is a key point.Don't blurt out your love for him unless you've had the most amazing chemistry from the beginning.Don't mention it on your third or tenth date if you can see him as your husband, father of your kids, and perfect.Before you can talk about the future, let things run their course.You'll want to tell him if he's really the man of your dreams.You may look like you're a little desperate if you reveal this too early.Keep things light in the beginning.Go on dates once or twice a week, but don't call him every day or try to see him as much as possible in the beginning, or you may scare him away.
Step 16: Don't lose him for lack of affection.
Not letting the man know how much he means to you can be a problem.You may be closer to losing him than you think if you haven't told him how much he means to you or gone out of your way to complement him.Men like to be told that they're doing something right, even though they don't like being smothered with love and affection.This doesn't mean that you have to say "I love you" immediately.You should be aware that men like to be praised as well.Return the affection if he likes to hold hands, cuddle, or kiss.He may not see that you're into him if he feels like he's always starting it first.
Step 17: Make sure you're compatible.
It's important for any serious relationship to survive.You should be compatible with your man even if he looks great on paper.It means laughing easily, having great conversations without running out of things to talk about, seeing eye-to-eye on the small things, and being able to get through a day.They didn't fight every two seconds.You can't force compatibility, but you can look out for it.If you find yourself fighting a lot, ask yourself if it means that you're not cut from the same cloth, or if you just like to problem-solve by fighting.
Step 18: Don't be impatient.
Give it time.After six months of bliss, don't rush to the altar.If you want to make it last, you have to be patient and allow a good relationship to continue.For the first year, just enjoy your time together and work on developing a strong bond before jumping to the next step.You should talk about marriage as early as possible if you want to save your relationship.Every relationship is different.If your relationship doesn't fit, try to force your friends who got engaged after a year together to do the same.
Step 19: The same long-term goals should be shared.
If you both want to focus on your careers, that's great.It's great if you're both ready for marriage and kids.It's even better if you're okay with living in the same place for the rest of your life.It's rare that you can be in sync with your partner.If you are, that's great.If you don't share as many long-term goals as possible, you will not be able to move forward together.If your visions of the future aren't wildly different, this will be much easier.Developing your relationship is the most important shared long-term goal.Both of you should be invested in the relationship to be able to move forward.