Being a good person is all about being confident.To become the person you want to be, you can learn to make positive changes in your life, and let that confidence affect the way people view you.Amplify the most realistic version of you.Be a great person.
Step 1: It is important to have a vision for your future.
What does it mean to be a good person?What parts of yourself do you think need treatment?You want to be a good person.What is different about how you act, dress, or move?Think of the person you want to be.What has changed?Do you speak more or less?Do you dress the same or differently?Where do you live?What do you do?Who are you associated with?Think of icons that you want to copy.Are you more of Madonna or Joan Jett?What do you think about Janis Joplin or Joni Mitchell?Is there a choice between Brad Pitt or Judi Dench?A lot of women are good role models.
Step 2: Your actions should be anchored.
The best way to make small changes is to anchor your actions in your vision, once you have a vision of yourself in place.It may sound stupid, but try to act and think like this person.Slowly work your way up to more significant changes.Badasses are confident in everything they do.In that confidence, anchor your vision.You can walk down the hall like yourself.It's time to do it again as your fearless self.Change you want to see.Pick one of your icons and pretend to walk like she would do all day.You should dress like she would.Say what you think she would say.
Step 3: There is a possibility that this is the case.
What do you want out of your life?What are your goals?Badasses are not wet blankets.Badasses take control of their lives and try to get what they want.It becomes more difficult if you don't know how to get what you want.Think about interests if the concept of "passions" seems too complicated.What do you like to do?What do you see yourself doing in 30 years?
Step 4: It's time to stop waiting.
Badass girls don't wait to find out if it's ok to do what they want.You need to act from a place of intelligence and drive, going after what you want without worrying about whether or not someone else says you can.People-pleasing behavior is not good.Don't be selfish, just be confident.You need to follow the rules if you want to avoid setting yourself back.Learning how to negotiate those rules while still being assertive will be a challenge.
Step 5: Get out of your head.
Badasses are not locked inside their heads.It's important to remember that you need to let your light shine through.Think about and plan for your persona, but make sure that you adopt it in the real world, instead of living in fantasy.Don't be afraid to speak your mind.A person will always say something if they have something to say.If you want to create a running narrative for your life, you need to include yourself as the character at the center of it.Look at yourself as both the main character and the narrator of your own bio-pic.
Step 6: Take a rest.
Badasses are at ease in their world.Cool above all, be unflappable, and be unshakable.It's important to be cool in the face of pressure, and seem like you're floating above the lesser concerns of your peers.You don't care about trends, fads or following the group.You move to the beat of your own drummer, and he is chill.Badasses are not cold, emotionless robots.When the time is right, get passionate.Think about what you're getting from the world.Stay calm if everyone in the group is excited.Get lively if everyone is too cool for school.The norm should be opposed.
Step 7: Speak first in a conversation, then speak less.
Speaking first makes a lot of things happen.You can form and control the conversation by moving it into the territory you want it to move into.You make the first play.You can seem above it all if you speak less.Don't argue.After you establish the rules, sit back and be cool.The other people should talk.Listen closely and be interested in what everyone is saying.Do it calmly but forcefully if you have to.Say something like, "I have something to say," and then stop for a few seconds.People will be raped.
Step 8: Be self-sufficient.
Asking everyone for help is not a good idea.It's important to try to be as capable and single-minded as possible, because it depends on where you are and what you do.You are a woman who takes care of herself, you are not a damsel in distress.We're human and if you need help, that's okay.Don't make a big scene of being unable to do something on your own.Take pride in the work you put into it.
Step 9: Help the other girls.
Don't be afraid to be yourself.Someone who knows how to be kind will stand out as being mature, interesting, and admirable.Girl-on-girl hate should not be perpetuated.Make a lot of your girlfriends.Make an effort to hang out with kids who don't have a lot of friends if you're in school.Is a new kid in class?You should hang out with them.The student doesn't speak the language well.Talk to them.That's awesome.
Step 10: Take risks.
Is it possible to be willing to do something that might fail?That's awesome.Badasses are willing to take risks that have great rewards to stand out from the rest.Stand up to your teacher when they give you a topic to argue about.When a younger kid is being picked on, tell the class bully to shut up.If you don't get that scholarship, apply.If you want to be on the team, try out.Be willing to fail.Calculated risks don't mean dangerous behavior.A calculated risk might be asking out the barista when you're out at coffee, and be willing to get shot down, not downing a bunch of vodka and driving your dad's car.There is a difference between being smart and being dumb.
Step 11: Don't be faking.
Being a good person isn't a persona.A person is not a "bitch."It's not the female equivalent of being "Alpha" and isn't a fad.Being the truest, least fake version of themselves is what badasses are.If you want other people to say you're a good person, it should be because you do things for yourself, not for the sake of your reputation.
Step 12: The way you look can be changed.
Badasses don't follow trends.Badasses look the way they do because they have decided to look that way.A girl could dress like she walked off the ranch, with a crop top and cowboy boots, or she could wear big sunglasses and top from Vogue.The way you look shouldn't change who you are.You can match your style to your real life.If you're a working-class girl with rough hands, you should embrace it.Own it.If you want to dress like your vision, do it.If you want to make a change in your life, your clothes can help.Pick what your inspiration would wear, if she had the choice, or who your icon is.
Step 13: You should wear clothes that make you proud.
Your clothes can affect how you feel and amplify who you are.You can change your appearance if it doesn't match who you want to be.If you want to be ambitious with your dress, dress up or down.If you want to try on everything, go through your clothes.What makes you feel like who you want to be?What makes you feel confident?Sexy?Powerful?Badass?Wear that.
Step 14: A clothes purge is a good thing.
You should get rid of anything that doesn't make you feel good.It's easy to collect clothes over the years, and all that raggedy home wear can be easily removed if it doesn't help you feel good.If you only have clothes that make you feel powerful, you'll feel bad all the time, and that will affect your behavior.
Step 15: Do not trend-hop.
Trends depend on being fashionable in the eyes of other people.If you spend all your time looking at fashion mags for the next cool monthly trend, you could be out doing things.Trying to stay ahead of the curve is fashionable.If you're interested in fashion and following trends, then you should do it.Don't feel like you have to fit in.That is being influenced by others.
Step 16: Make eye contact with each other.
When you're with people, it's a good idea to make more eye contact.People will notice when you have a powerful gaze, and this helps you to appear confident and powerful in your interactions.You don't have to be agreeable all the time.Look skeptical, like you're not sure what a person is saying.That's a great way to get the truth.Be the one who intimidates and don't let yourself be intimidated.