Do you want to ask the special girl to the prom?It can make a girl feel great knowing that someone wants to go with her to the prom if she is asked to.There are a few things you can do to make this an unforgettable invitation.
Step 1: She might have a date for the prom already.
It's better to back off if she does.You may not think so, but asking her when she has a date is pretty much self-sabotage: your chances of her agreeing are next to none.Look at her behavior.If you don't want anyone to know that you've been asking about her, it's a good idea to just wait and watch.Girls talk a lot about their dates.You should be able to tell if she has a date.Get a friend to ask her friends.Asking her friends will probably tip your cards, but that could be a good thing.One of your friends should ask one of her friends.It was sneaky!Ask her her own questions.Ask her straight up if you're super direct and don't worry about the consequences.Do you have a date to the prom?Look at you expectantly and ask her if she says no.Maybe wait if she says "no" but then talks about how she has to find one soon.Ask her who she's going with if you're already friends with her.This means that if you want to ask her, you can slide this into a normal conversation.If she's got someone to go with, she will say who and you won't embarrassed yourself, so you can get onto Phase Two.
Step 2: Become friends with other people.
She is more likely to take someone to the prom if she knows them.Take every opportunity you can get without smothering her: science projects, sitting next to one another at lunch, inviting her to a party you're going to, etc.You can get to know her better by looking at every social opportunity.When you talk to her, try to be casual.It's difficult to like someone but remember that the stakes aren't high at the end of the day.It's not the end of the world if you ask her.You will end up asking and taking another girl, who could be more special at the end of the day.Ask questions about her when you talk to her.People like talking about their interests and ambitions.The conversation will shift to you after a while if you focus on her in the beginning.
Step 3: It's a good idea to flirt with her a little.
If she sees you as a romantic interest, you'll help your chances.Slowly but surely, you can become a romantic interest.There are a couple of flirting basics that every guy should know.It's a good idea to compliment her from time to time.She has aspects of her personality and looks.If you want to compliment her looks, stay away from the feminine areas.Your eyes are the same color as your shirt.Were you going for that?There is a smile.Your smile lights up the room.Every time!There is a style.I like your style.A lot of other girls secretly envy it.There is hair.It looks good when you put it up.I like what you did with it.Slowly break the barrier.You should get used to making contact with her.It's a tricky balancing act because girls don't like guys who are constantly touching them.Touching her hand, arm, shoulder, and back while making a point.If you don't know her at all, wait until you break the barrier.Not going for sensitive areas, such as the thighs, stomach, and neck.You can't do anything until you're dating.You should have touched her after you've grown closer.If you're giving her a hard time, you can try to tick her off.She should be in a playful mood before you do this.
Step 4: Have a good time with other girls.
Guys who impress other girls are what girls like.It tells them that you are trusted by other girls.They know that other girls think you're interesting.If you hang out with other girls, your potential date will know that you are eligible.That's a positive thing.
Step 5: Ask her in person.
Asking her in person will establish a real, physical connection between the two of you, and will give you a better chance of getting a "yes" from her.It's a lot harder to reject someone in person.If you can summon up the courage to ask her in person, you will increase your chances of getting the answer you were hoping for.If you can't ask her in person, write a letter and send it to her.It should be romantic without being gushy.You want to let her know that you like her, but you don't want her to think you're stalker and have been following her for months.Either give it to her in person or put it in her locker.Ask her over the phone as a last resort.Sometimes life throws you a curve ball, but neither option is ideal.Ask if she has a prom date.You can ask her if she doesn't.It's important to know that your chances of success are much lower than asking in person or a letter.
Step 6: There is a possibility that this is not the case.
If you have bad breath, unkempt hair or oily skin, she may not want to go to prom with you.You should brush your teeth before you ask her out, but don't change yourself too much to please her.When you talk to her, you want fresh air.If you're dirty, shower.Don't skip out on the morning shower if you have rowing or soccer practice before school.Remember, godliness is next to cleanliness?Don't put it on thick.She doesn't think spraying yourself with a lot of cologne is a good idea.One spray at most, or better yet, let your natural cleanliness shine.To impress, dress nicely.When you ask her, you don't have to wear a suit and tie, but you do want to put your best foot forward.You don't have to look like you walked straight out of the '50s.
Step 7: There is a smile.
Did you know that smiling can cause you to be happy?Researchers have found that smiling can make you feel better.A happy you usually means a happy her.What will happen if that doesn't make your chances better?
Step 8: Be who you are.
Don't play it really serious if you're a funny guy.Don't try to be a jokester if you're a serious guy.Nerves will probably keep you from asking her the exact way you wanted to, but it's usually not as bad as we think.Put the situation in terms of risk and reward.It's exactly what you want, low risk and high reward.You should be a betting man.The risk is that she will say no.You will be embarrassed for an hour, and then you will move on.You don't need to read on to understand why the reward is that she'll say yes.
Step 9: Ask her.
This is the moment you've been waiting for.You can ask her in a variety of ways.Be inventive is one of the ideas you can build on.For girls who you're close to, or perhaps expect you to ask them, lighting up candles on her driveway is a good idea.When she steps outside, be there.Write "Prom" on a piece of paper and then break it up into a puzzle.You can buy pre-broken puzzle pieces to write on.She can assemble it by giving it to her.You can ask her out to prom by making your own soda label.Put the label on the bottle of soda and give it to her.Don't be afraid to be direct.There are more emotional ways to ask a girl to prom."I know we're just friends right now, but there isn't anyone else that I'd rather go to prom with."Will you join me?I've wanted to ask you this for a while, but I get tied up around pretty girls.Will you go to prom with me?I've been waiting for this day for a long time.I'll probably not say it directly, but will you go to prom with me?
Step 10: Rejection is accepted in stride.
Rejection is something we all deal with.You're not trying enough if you've never been rejected.Don't get angry or argue with her if she turns out to be not so hopeful.If she doesn't choose her answer, you will probably not want to go to prom with her.Look her in the eyes and say something like, "That's totally fine, I understand."I hope we can stay friends.You don't know what decency can get you.