You can still have a lot of friends even if you are into different things than most of your classmates.In pop culture, friendship are built on more than just similar tastes.The best friends are the ones where you can stay true to yourself and accept others.
Step 1: Love what makes you unique.
Maybe you feel weird because you dress differently than others.Maybe you're into music or movies that aren't popular with your peers.Look at them as positives.People don't want to be like everyone else.If everyone was the same, the world would be dull.
Step 2: Do you know your strengths?
Socializing requires a lot of skill and effort.Realizing what you are good at will give you a good place to start, while you learn to develop other skills.You can communicate well in email, text or in letters if you are a strong writer.You may have a sense of humor.People love to laugh and will be attracted to your presence if you can give them a good laugh.List some things you can offer if you are shy.You can be good at sports or know a lot about a subject.If you are willing to help out in art class or join a sports team, you can meet a lot of people.
Step 3: The weird people should be respected.
Everyone has a thing about them that they are afraid others will think is weird.You can let go of judgements about other peoples quarks because you want them to do the same thing for you.
Step 4: Don't allow the weird things to define you.
Let your personality show run its course.If you want to make friends or become popular, you shouldn't have to change who you are.Sometimes our eccentricities seem so big that it becomes difficult for others to see beyond the things that make us weird.You should remind yourself that you are more than just the way you dress, the type of entertainment you watch, and the music you like.Those things are part of you, but not everything, so let people see your other side.You want to join a club but don't know much about it.It's a good idea to recommend a book.They can recommend one to you.
Step 5: Common interests are what you should look for.
Even if the other kids don't dress like you or like the same things, you can always find something to talk about.If people feel they can connect with someone they think is different, they will be more willing to listen.You can talk about things that are similar like homework assignments, teachers, parents, and a popular television show.
Step 6: You should introduce yourself.
You can introduce yourself to a group of people at the lunch table or during a free period.Hi!Mary is my name.Did you guys understand the homework?I was wondering if any of you wanted to share some of your snacks with me.By the way, my name is Danna.
Step 7: Ask questions
Give people the opportunity to talk about themselves.Ask about their day or what they like to do.Follow your curiosities.Ask about things you want to know more about.Do you have any siblings?
Step 8: Listen.
Listen when people talk to you.Show them you are paying attention to what they are saying by nodding or smiling at them.
Step 9: Be nice.
If you feel like you are weird, you may have been the victim of cruel comments from other people.Some people put down people because they are different, or they don't understand why the person is the way he or she is and that makes them uncomfortable.Don't get to that level.If you are kind, you will make stronger friends.If people are having trouble with an assignment at school, offer to help them.People can share gum or mints.Say please and thank you.
Step 10: You should wear your weird clothes.
If you use the weird and unique things that make you, they will work for you.You can show your weird side with a colorful outfit or crazy haircut.When it comes to fashion, become known as the girl who breaks the mold.
Step 11: Social media can be used.
It's a good way to grow your social circle.You can post pictures of your outfits, friends, art projects, favorite bands or anything else that interests you.If you want to get to know someone, tag them.
Step 12: Throw a party.
You want to get to know a lot of new people.A fun theme for your party could be based on a popular television show or type of music you enjoy.What other people like is what you should keep in mind.Even as you stay true to what you love and care about, try to make the party welcoming to new friends.
Step 13: You should be helpful.
Being someone who is always ready to help others can help you develop a reputation among your peers.Offer to help other students carry their books, work on homework or even talk to a crush.
Step 14: Think again about what popular means.
It is easy to get caught up in the idea that popularity is about hierarchy, who has the most friends or who gets the attention.People who are kind, good listeners, and inclusive of others tend to be popular.Do you want to be a part of a popular group?
Step 15: Do not change who you are at your core.
Meeting new people might require you to learn some new skills, but you shouldn't sacrifice your core values just to make friends.
Step 16: You should start a club at school.
There is always someone else who shares your interests.You have to be willing to look.You can start a video game or J-pop club with the help of a teacher or counselor.It should be open to new comers and hard core fans.