It can be difficult to give advice on how to impress girls or get them to like you.Your friends think they know the answers, your brothers, sisters, and even your parents.The most important thing for you is to sift through all the information and find the best ways to fit you and your personality.The good news is that if you learn the good ideas you won't have to relearn them as you get older.
Step 1: There's a smile.
It is not always about trying to get her to notice you and how different you are.Everyone looks a million times better with a smile.Don't be paranoid about it.There is a line between an attractive smile and an unnerving smile.
Step 2: You can hold a conversation.
Guys tend to think about big, heroic acts first and this is not a crazy idea at all.It's true that you can impress a girl by being able to hold an interesting conversation.
Step 3: Don't worry about your social status.
It isn't something that matters to most girls.The attitude, confidence, and personality of girls are what they really care about.If you talk to a girl that is out of your league and do it in an interesting way, you could find yourself on her radar very quickly.
Step 4: Everything isn't a competition.
You don't always have to be the best.There are few things that irritate girls more than a guy who always has to be talking about how he is better than everyone else.
Step 5: Don't be negative.
It is up to you to spin bad days in a positive way.Being able to find a gray cloud is very impressive, as they say, and it has a silver lining.
Step 6: Be nice.
You don't need to slay a dragon or save a king.Simply open the door for them, pull out their chair, let them wear their coat, and help them out of the car or down the stairs.Will you please have some manners?Girls don't like burps, farts or other young boy behavior.They find these behaviors crude, annoying, and gross more often than not.
Step 7: She should get along with her friends.
A guy who is having a good time with her friends gets the attention of a girl.She can see immediately that you are fun and likable and that makes a lasting impression.
Step 8: The cell phone should ring.
This tells her that you don't care about anything else when you're talking to her.When they say something along the lines of, "Your cell phone is ringing," it's the best.Let her know that talking to her is more important than anything else.That is impressive.
Step 9: The focus should be on her.
Ask her what to do.Ask questionsYou should compliment her answers, her appearance, or her new glasses.Anything new about her is a great topic to praise her on.
Step 10: Be interesting on the phone.
It is important to make a good first impression when meeting someone for the first time.Show her how unique you are by being yourself.Discuss with her what she likes and dislikes.Ask her about her favorite bands.What is her favorite music?Send her funny videos.
Step 11: Don't be afraid to be YOURSELF.
The lines "Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by you again?" can work well with the right amount of silliness.It shows your sense of humor and lets her know you are interested in her.
Step 12: To cook.
It doesn't mean reading the directions on the box of mac 'n' cheese and pulling it off correctly.Go to a website where you can learn how to make it from scratch, practice it, and then do it with confidence in front of her.She will be very impressed.
Step 13: Be yourself.
If she discovers that you aren't who she thinks you are, it will be embarrassing and you will lose a lot of points.She's not worth your time if she doesn't like you for who you really are.
Step 14: You should treat the women in your life with kindness.
If a girl sees you with your mom or sister and you treat them well, your likability will soar.This doesn't mean you have to be perfect, it means you should be.If they see you playing with children, how much do they like you?Huge bonus points.
Step 15: It's important to dress well.
If you are a T-shirt and jeans guy, then by all means where they are.T-shirts and jeans are clean, not grungy or cheap.It doesn't take a designer suit and tie, it just takes some attention to how you look.Being clean is more important than just clean clothes.It also includes taking showers, washing your hair, and brushing your teeth.
Step 16: Let go of confidence.
The key difference between confidence and arrogance is that when you are confident, you shift the focus of the conversation from her to someone else.It isn't all about you because you know who you are and are willing to let others take some credit as well.
Step 17: There are interests that feed your soul.
Someone who does nothing in life is boring.If you have a lot of things that interest you, women will want to know more about you.You shouldn't be embarrassed by the things that interest you.Is it cool?That is a powerful attractor, so own up to it.It takes the whole likability factor to stratospheric levels with these topics.It's important to show women you have passion.
Step 18: Your sense of humor is displayed.
We like to be around people who make us laugh.It speaks to the level of comfort and confidence that you have in yourself, which is even more important for girls.It is important to make sure that your jokes don't hurt others.Maybe you need to put down others to feel better about yourself, that is a big tip-off.Even if her jokes are not all that funny, she can still laugh at them.When people laugh at our jokes, we like it.Laughing out loud and being able to do it without reservation is very appealing.
Step 19: Do not be a suck-up.
No one likes a yes man.Everyone likes to get their way at first.It wears thin because you don't have a point of view, which is profoundly uninteresting.It could also mean that you don't respect yourself enough to say what you think, which is a major turn-off.
Step 20: Being a good listener is something that should be practiced.
Women are more emotionally fulfilled when they talk and share.If she is telling you about their problems, this doesn't mean solving them.It means listening and demonstrating what they are saying to you.You can let her know you're listening by smiling, laughing, nodding, or reacting appropriately to the emotions of the story.If she said something, repeat it back to her.She said it was not verbatim, but by summing up what she had just said, you get it.
Step 21: Show your attention and consideration.
Nothing makes a girl happier or gives her the warm fuzzies more than knowing that a guy is thinking about her.Sending a link to a video you think she might like is one of the ways this can be done.Text her a joke.Unexpectedly invite her to join your group of friends for a night out to a movie, concert, miniature golf, or any other fun activity.
Step 22: Share kindness with others.
A lot of women will pay attention to how you treat your server at a restaurant in order to see what kind of person you are.They watch how you treat animals and children.If you score on all of them, you might have a crush on yourself.
Step 23: Take charge.
A guy who is capable of leading and getting others to follow him is very attractive to girls.You have a winning recipe for getting that girl to like you if you are willing to admit mistakes and make necessary changes.Being the man in charge who is flexible and confident as a leader is what women of all ages like to feel protected.