Is there a girl in middle school that you're crushing on but aren't sure if she likes you back?Some girls are shy and won't let you know how they feel.Other girls will talk to you, but sometimes they will send you mixed signals.If a girl in middle school really likes you, there are a number of signs you can look out for.
Step 1: Look at her body language.
Body language can help you see if the girl really likes you.Her body can give her away if she doesn't like you.If the girl really likes you, she may try to lean in when she's talking to you so she can get a better look at you.She's into you if she twirls her hair or stares down at her feet.She is shy and nervous about talking to you because she likes you.She can play with her hands or jewelry.This is a sign that she likes you.She may break eye contact.She may be shy about talking to you if you share a moment of eye contact and then she looks away.There is a smile on her face.Does she smile even if you don't say anything that makes her happy?She may like you.
Step 2: See how she looks at you.
She dresses up more when she knows you'll be around.If you both know you'll be running into her at the mall and she's all dressed up and wears more makeup than usual, it may be for you.She might be trying to look good for you if she knows she'll see you on the weekend and put on a new dress.If she knows she'll be around you, she may put on a hint of perfume.If you don't think she wears perfume during school but suddenly puts it on when you're at a group hang at the movies, it may be for you.She's known for her above-and-beyond style even when you're not around.Ask other classmates if she dresses up on days you don't see each other, or pay attention to how she looks when you run into her accidentally to see if her outfits are always as put-together as they are when she knows she'll be around you.
Step 3: You can make her blush.
She really likes you and this is a chance to win.If you catch her blushing after you look at her, or if her face turns bright red in the middle of a conversation with you, she's feeling shy because of how much she likes you.She should be observed for a while.If she is the kind of person who is shy, or if she blushes only for you.She thinks you're special if she only blushes in front of you.
Step 4: If you can catch her staring at you, that's great.
She may like you if you've seen her staring at you in English class.It is more likely that she likes you because she feels like she has been caught, if she looks away, blushes, or doesn't look in your direction for the rest of the class.If you catch her eye in a group hang-outs, you can see it.If she's staring at you, look her way from across the room.She may not be directing her attention towards you if she is the type who just stares off and daydreams a lot.
Step 5: She can easily laugh around you.
If you find her giggling for no good reason or even laughing when you don't say anything funny, then this may be because she likes you.The girl is laughing or giggling because she's nervous or excited to be around you.If you have an effect on her funny bone, watch if she laughs around.
Step 6: She is always laughing with her friends.
If the girl passes you in the halls with her friends and they laugh and tease her, this is a sign that they know you like her.If she stops.It is more likely that she is into you if she gently shoves her friends or refuses to make eye contact with you.It's almost certain that her friends will know if she has a crush on you.Her friends may know how she feels about you.
Step 7: She might try to gently touch you.
She'll most likely touch you in a teasing way, like a playful shove or tap you on the shoulder to tell you something.This is how she flirts and tries to get close to you.If she touches anyone, notice.She likes you if she only pays attention to you.She might be a physical person if she touches everyone playfully.
Step 8: She may give you a small gift.
If she gives you a bowl she made in ceramics class, or if she went to the mall and got you something silly like a pencil with your favorite sports team's logo on it, then she is telling you that she likes you.She is trying to impress you and tell you that she likes you if she brings candy or cookies to school.
Step 9: She may try to talk about common interests.
If she starts talking to you about the Warriors because of you, then she may have found a new love for the team.She may just be trying to impress you with her new interests if she knows you love watching Game of Throne and suddenly knows everything about the characters.She probably likes you if she's never shown an interest in your interests before but suddenly knows everything about the things you like.
Step 10: She might be looking for an excuse to talk to you.
She's just looking for an excuse to talk to you if she approaches you and asks a question like how hard the math test was, or what new sport you played in gym class.She's just trying to spend more time with you by asking any questions that come to her mind, if she asks what you think of a certain teacher or the new kid in school.
Step 11: If she teases you, look at it.
It is almost certain that the girl likes you if she teases you.She's teasing you because she likes to be around you if she makes fun of you, for example, laughing at your shoes, or making a comment about how messy your locker is.Sometimes, her teasing can get mean, but that doesn't mean she hates you.Remember the golden rule, if she's paying attention to you, she likes you.Teasing is one way of paying attention.
Step 12: You should see if she flirts with you.
Middle school teasing and flirting are very different.There are some signs that the girl is flirting with you.She's definitely flirting if she winks at you.She is flirting with you if she teases you about your new haircut and says it is an improvement.She's flirting with you if she acts coy, playful or silly around you.She's just flirting with you if she makes fun of you for liking another girl.
Step 13: She may ask who you like.
If the girl is suddenly interested in who you like and if you want to ask any girl out, then she wants to know, unless she's playing a game with one of her friends.She's just trying to talk to you about your romantic life if she keeps bombarding you with names of people she knows you don't like.If she makes fun of any girlfriends you've had in the past, she's probably jealous because she really likes you.
Step 14: She uses social media and texting.
Middle school girls like to flirt on social media.There is a good chance she likes you if she pays attention to you.She probably likes you if she's always texting or commenting on your posts.It's more likely that she likes you if she sends you a video or link.She's interested in your plans because she likes you, if she asks what you're doing over the weekend when she texts you.She has a social media account.Does she talk to other people on social media more than she talks to you, or are you special?
Step 15: Ask her friends.
Asking her friends is a less bold way of telling her that you're interested in her.If you really want to know how she feels about you, you can ask her friends.They will make it clear that she likes you by acting excited and saying that you should talk to her.They will tell her that you like her, so be careful.If the girl doesn't like you, her friends will let you know, which will spare your feelings.
Step 16: Ask her her own questions.
If you really want to date this girl, then just find a time when you're alone with her, and ask her how she feels about you.You can admit that you like her first and wait for her to respond.Don't put too much pressure on her, just casually say that she might like you and that you want to know how she feels.She can be flattered to put her at ease.
Step 17: It is appropriate to react appropriately.
You don't have to jump up and down for joy if she admits that she likes you and you as well.Show her that you like each other and ask if she wants to hang out.Don't be a jerk if she does not like you.As you say goodbye, act cool and calm.Maybe she'll change her mind about you in the future, if you show her that you're comfortable with yourself.Remember that you are in middle school.Middle school relationships are fun, but they are usually short and shouldn't be taken seriously.If it doesn't work out with this girl, someone else will fall for you.