It can be hard to get your crush's attention.You don't want to get embarrassed if you come on too strong, but you want them to notice you.If you want your crush to be more interested in you, you may want to try to make them jealous.You can make your crush jealous by flirting with someone else, showing you are in high demand, and being the mysterious cool girl.
Step 1: Talk to other people about dates.
You should chat with your potential rivals when your crush is around.The person you are flirting with shouldn't actually ask you out.Say something like, "How was your weekend?" or "I have so much homework to do this weekend, but I can't miss my friend's party."You may become off-limits to your crush if you get asked out by a friend.
Step 2: You can laugh at the jokes of the other person.
Laughing is a key part of flirting, it doesn't matter if you think it's funny.It shows that you have a good sense of humor and are fun to be around.
Step 3: Body language can be used.
If it is directed at other people, your crush will pick up on it.If you do a little bit of flirting with body language, you will be able to make your crush jealous.If you aim your flirtatious vibes at a group rather than a specific individual, no one will think you are coming onto them.You can either smile or pucker your lips.Get closer to the other person.Playfully touch their arm.If you are gesturing or keeping your arms down, don't cross them.
Step 4: Play with your hair.
A timeless flirting technique is twirling your hair.Playing with your hair will make you smell better.Wrap your finger in hair.Take your hair out and shake it out.If you need it out of your face, you can always put it back up.
Step 5: Know your worth.
If you want to make someone jealous, you need to know why.Think about what makes you special.You should set high standards for yourself because people will treat you that way.You deserve to be treated well, and remind yourself that you have the same value as everyone else.Make a list of your best qualities, your hobbies and interests, and the positive things you have done over the past few years, such as volunteering or helping out your grandparents.Ignore someone who doesn't treat you well and focus on your friends.All people are valuable even though they are different.Not everyone will like you, but that shouldn't affect how you feel about yourself.
Step 6: It's time to wear your favorite outfit.
Pick clothes that make you feel good and reflect your identity when you know that you are going to be around your crush.When you feel good about yourself, you project those positive thoughts to the world.You should show your best features.Pick an outfit that says something about you.If you want to show off your feminine side, you could wear something flowy or studded.
Step 7: You should keep yourself open.
Keeping your arms loose at your side will show you are comfortable with yourself.
Step 8: Make eye contact.
When you first meet people, give a casual greeting such as, "Hey, guys!" and keep eye contact.Make eye contact with friends.Try to look at their noses if you can't see their eyes.
Step 9: You can own the room.
You need to see and speak to everyone, no matter where you are.Your crush will notice you since you will be fluttering around like a social butterfly.Say hi to everyone.Speak to everyone at the end of the event.If you are talking to the same people, set time limits for how long you can stay.You can make an excuse to walk away after 15 minutes.I will catch you guys in a minute.I have to refill my drink.
Step 10: Tell them you have a plan.
If you aren't busy, make it seem like you are.You want your crush to think that everyone wants a piece of your time because they will be jealous that you aren't spending that time with them.You should announce your plans to the group if you don't talk to your crush.The rest of my weekend is packed, so I am happy to come out with you today.I have a party tomorrow night and then I am going to the beach on Sunday.
Step 11: Don't text while you're out.
It's not possible to show them attention when you're with other people.It is better to wait until you get home to share, as you may be tempted to text a picture or comment to show how busy you are.Wait to reply to a text from your crush if they ask what you are doing.They are more likely to be jealous of those who are getting your attention if you keep them wondering.
Step 12: You can go out with your friends.
You can make your crush jealous by spending time with people who aren't your friends and showing how much fun you are.Your crush is more likely to want you more when they realize that you aren't waiting around for them to like you.
Step 13: Take part in new activities.
New activities will allow you to spend more time with other people, give you more plans, and show that you have a lot of options for how you spend your time.You won't have time to think about your crush because you'll be so busy.You can join a club.If you want to be a part of a team, try out.You can try community theater.There is an animal shelter.
Step 14: You can post on social media.
You can show off your life on your social media accounts.Only posting your finest moments is how you can accomplish this.You should call a friend if you are feeling down.You want your life to look great when your crush sees your stories.If you spend time alone, make it look like you are doing a lot.Share pictures with friends and family.Rather than posting selfies, choose moments when you are out doing something.
Step 15: Limit how much information you give.
Provide a few details about yourself at a time instead of telling him your life story.He has to keep the conversation going when he only gives half answers because he doesn't know what he wants to know.You make yourself appealing by providing a little mystery.When your crush asks if you were in the play, you could half answer and say, "I was part of the show."They will keep wondering if you were the star of the show and will make you seem more exciting.
Step 16: Before agreeing to a plan, hesitate.
If you aren't busy, show how much you want to spend time with him.If he's inviting you to a group event, make a show of running through your plans before committing to spending time with him.It is possible to mix up the days on purpose.If your crush mentions a party that your group will go to on Friday night, say, "Oh, Saturday I already have tickets to a concert!"I think I can make Friday happen.Suggest alternate plans, thanks for reminding me.If your crush asks you to get frozen yogurt on Tuesday, ask them if you can do it on Thursday because of a conflict.They will be kept guessing about what you are doing.
Step 17: Mention your big plans.
A hallmark of the cool girl is that she sees herself in the future, whether it is art school or running for president.Do you know what yours could be?Would you like to start your own makeup company or move to the big city to work as a pastry chef?Think about how you can make your dreams come true.Your crush should not be told about your big plans.Don't refer to it while you're close to your crush.You could say, "I'm tired of taking classes that I don't need."I am going to art school in a few years and I want you to enjoy my macarons for free while you can, because soon they will be lining up in the streets of New Orleans for a taste of them.
Step 18: Send mixed signals.
Mixed signals can be used to make someone jealous because they keep the person guessing.Sending mixed signals will allow you to get someone's attention while avoiding embarrassment because whether or not you're into them will be unclear.The conversation should be about serious topics after a flirtatious exchange.All of your attention should be on someone else after you talk to them at the social event.Take a break after texting a lot.Wait a day or two to answer their last text.This can backfire.It can make you look mean or like you don't like them.Caution is required when using this tactic.
Step 19: Don't talk to your crush if you're talking to others.
Don't rush to talk to your crush when you are at the same eventSay "hi" to other people first, then try to have a conversation with someone.
Step 20: Share a thought.
Think about which social justice issue is most important to you and write down a few comments about it.Show them that you are smart.You could look at the internet to figure out your own thoughts.