It's only natural that you would want him to be crazy about you, too.There are a few common tricks and techniques that you can use to accomplish your goal.
Step 1: You should make eye contact.
Making and holding eye contact with a guy can give him encouragement to take an interest in you.Make sure you keep eye contact when you're talking to him.Don't let your eyes wander, especially in the direction of another guy.When you're standing on opposite sides of the room, you can use eye contact to drive him crazy.Drop your gaze after holding it for a few moments and making eye contact with him.Slowly drag your eyes back up to meet him again, keeping a flirtatious smile on your face as you do.
Step 2: You have to dress yourself up.
The outside gets seen first, even though it's the inside that counts.If you want to make a guy crazy early on, wear clothes, makeup, and accessories that highlight your best features.This doesn't mean that you should wear revealing clothes.It will catch a guy's attention temporarily, but they won't drive him crazy for very long.A dress that shows a little leg or a blouse that hugs your body in all the right places can work wonders, but your appearance should scream "attractive" more than "sexy."Even if you aren't trying to capture a guy's heart, the clothes you wear will still work for this goal.
Step 3: Don't dress up.
After you've gotten to know the guy, it's time to take off your casual clothes.He has wedged his way into your life by breaking through the barricade.The clothes you wear should be clean.A relaxed pair of jeans and a t-shirt make a nice casual look, but a shirt that's three sizes too big with a giant mustard stain on it may not be the best choice.After you've established a habit of dressing down, you should still dress up occasionally to reignite some of the sparks he initially felt when he saw you.
Step 4: You should wear a signature scent.
After a shower, apply a scented lotion or perfume to your ears.It can make a guy want to move in closer to you.Moderation is important here.The scent should be strong enough to be smelled.If your perfume is strong, it can make him want to distance himself from you.
Step 5: People dance.
A girl who feels comfortable enough in her own skin to break into the occasional random dance is a girl that a lot of guys go crazy for.It's even more effective if you randomly start dancing to the radio when you're in your kitchen or car.If you can, invite him to dance with you.Being invited to join the fun can drive him crazy.
Step 6: You can play with your hair.
When you know he's watching, twirl your hair between your fingers or flip it over as you work on something.The action should look natural.If you have short or pulled back hair, you might want to brush your hands against the nape of your neck or bare shoulders.This motion can be very touching.
Step 7: It is necessary to balance independence with dependence.
At the same time, you need to make sure he knows that there's a place for him in your life and that you're capable of being independent.Don't plead with the man in your life to make time for you on the weekend if he will be busy.Accept it and come up with your own plans.Don't be too shy.It's not a good idea to check your texts or talk about your friends if he has you in his arms.
Step 8: Show self-confidence.
You know who she is and where she's at, so let him see that side of you.Even if you don't have your life completely worked out right now, there is usually some aspect of it that you can be proud of.You may be self-conscious about the fact that you're not as far along in your career as you would like, or you might be inexperienced with romance and love.You might be very confident about your intelligence, the relationships you've built with your friends and family, or any other number of accomplishments.If you don't feel confident in one area of your life, highlight the other areas and you will feel more confident.
Step 9: You should respect yourself.
You should respect your body, your free will, and your life.You don't deserve serious attention if you treat yourself poorly.
Step 10: Show him a different viewpoint.
Show him a side of you that he has never seen before, once he's gotten to know you a little.The surprise will make him realize that there's more to you than meets the eye.If you're usually stern, serious type, let him see you laughing uncontrollably at your favorite comedy film or relaxing after a hard day of work.If you're the kind of person who doesn't mind being alone, get serious with him and tell him some of your dreams and fears.
Step 11: It's a good idea to laugh at yourself.
You will make a mistake in front of him.If you don't get upset about it, poke fun at yourself.
Step 12: Show off your smart side.
A smart girl will keep a guy crazy for a long time, even if he is interested in her.You don't have to be knowledgeable about things you've never heard of.Allowing your natural cleverness show is what respecting your intelligent side means.Don't try to make yourself look like an airhead.
Step 13: He should chase you.
The one being wooed prefers to be the one doing the wooing.He needs to know that you're interested, but you shouldn't let him think you want to keep him.You should make him work to get closer to you.There is both physical and emotional intimacy here.Let your guard down by keeping your thoughts and feelings to a minimum.Leave him with nothing more than a kiss and make him prove himself before you take him back to your apartment.
Step 14: You should make him miss you.
It can hold his attention if you leave a long time and he misses you.You should be unavailable from time to time.If he extends it with short notice, pass one up.Make sure you follow your refusal with a line about how much you want to do next time.Make him jealous, but be careful.You should hang out with a few of your female friends and talk about your plans for the day.It might give him reason to doubt your intentions if you do this with guy friends.
Step 15: Let him be who he is.
Don't want him to change for you.There will be things that you need to compromise on if you're in a relationship with a guy.There should be no dramatic change to his personality or beliefs in these things.
Step 16: Love his family.
Ask about his family and be friendly with his friends.You demonstrate that you are serious about being a part of his life if you show an interest in the people he cares about.You don't need to be best friends with his friends, but it helps if you can tolerate them and spend time with them.Since you might spark jealousy and suspicion, try not to get too close to any of them.Don't push the matter too much if he's not on good terms with his family.When he's ready to start talking, bring it up every now and then.
Step 17: You can take an interest in his hobbies.
You don't have to love every hobby he loves, but you should at least take some interest in it and let him talk to you about it.Even if you don't know anything about it, give it a try.It's possible that you won't continue with it after the first try, but at least you'll understand him when he starts talking about it later.
Step 18: Affirmatively.
Offer a compliment on how great he is when he doesn't expect it.Flattery is a powerful tool.Make sure your compliment is genuine and not sarcastic.Compliments on his appearance can be just as effective.It's a good idea to mix things up a bit.You might whisper that you couldn't stop thinking about his eyes when you meet him after work.You might say that you don't know anyone else who can tell a great joke or story like he can.
Step 19: Let him show his strength.
Let him be the man when you are together.This doesn't mean that you have to be submissive, but you should let him take the lead and showcase some of his traditional gender roles.If he holds the door open for you or gives you his jacket on a cold night, you should accept the gesture.
Step 20: Don't smother him without supporting him.
It's a good place for him to fall.Let him know that you will be there for him when things go wrong.You need to give him space as well.He may need more personal space than you do.If he needs time to be independent or alone to deal with his issues, let him have it.
Step 21: Make sure you pay attention to him.
When a girl lets a guy see that she's crazy for him, he is more likely to go crazy.If you pay attention to what he says and does, you will be able to prove that you were listening.If he tells you about his pet dog when he was a child, you can bring it up later in the conversation.You can demonstrate that you pay attention to him by remembering some basic facts, such as his birthday, his siblings, and so on.