A crush will always be a crush if you let them know how you feel.If you can't tell your crush that you like them in person, you could write a note.It should be simple, and to the point.Don't include too many details about your feelings.Remember that even if your crush doesn't like you back, you will have been brave enough to get your own feelings off your chest, and that is something to be proud of.
Step 1: It should be simple and short.
Tell your crush that you want to spend time with them.Don't gush about how wonderful your crush is or how you think about them all the time.Your crush may feel uncomfortable if you come on too strong.
Step 2: Tell your crush you like them.
It is best to just be direct with this, even though it may seem scary.Tell your crush you like them and be honest.You don't want to tell your crush you think about them 24/7.You don't want your crush to find out.Write, "I like you."Do you want to hang out? I can't stop thinking about you and I dream of you every night.I adore you so much.
Step 3: Give a few reasons why you like them.
Think about what makes you like your crush.Is they funny or kind?They are either great dancers or great guitar players.There are at least one or two reasons why your crush has captured your attention.Writing things like, "I like that you work really hard in chemistry" or "You're so popular" are not good reasons to like someone.
Step 4: You should be confident in yourself.
It can be difficult to share your feelings.If your crush doesn't return your feelings, you should not put yourself down in the note.Don't let your crush know that you're scared of rejection, but show confidence in yourself.Don't write "I know you'll never like me back, but I just had to tell you that I think about you all the time!"Do you want to hang out next weekend?
Step 5: Do not share anything you don't want others to know.
One of the reasons why you want to keep it simple is that your crush could show the note to their friends.You don't need to feel embarrassed telling someone you like them.If other people read your note, you may feel uneasy.Don't say, "You're my first crush and I think about you all the time."I want to kiss you for the first time.
Step 6: It needs to be neat.
If you want your crush to easily read your message, you need to use your best handwriting.You should rewrite the note if you scratched out a lot of lines.You definitely don't want your crush to know what you crossed out.Don't add lots of hearts or kisses to the note.When you're dating someone, save those for the notes you write.
Step 7: The person needs to sign the note.
Signing the note with your name is crucial.You want your crush to know that you like them, not that they have a secret admirer.If there are a few kids in your class with the same name, you should add your last name or at least your initial to avoid confusion.You can write, "I hope to hear back from you soon."See you in math class from Adam G.Sarah O’Reilly.
Step 8: The note needs to be addressed.
You can put your note in a sealed envelope or fold it up.If you put your crush's name on the outside of the note, there is no question who it is for.If there is more than one person with the same name, include their last initial or name.Write, "To Marissa E."
Step 9: You should deliver it to your crush.
You can either leave it in their locker or hand it to them.If you have a friend give a note to your crush, make sure they say it's from you to avoid confusion.Wait until lunchtime or after school to deliver the note so that you and your crush don't get in trouble during class.If you wait until your crush is alone to deliver the note, they will not be able to read it.You can email the note to your crush.You will not know if your crush takes a digital message as seriously as a handwritten one.
Step 10: To reply, ask your crush.
When you deliver the letter in person, you can add a line in the note asking your crush to write back, or ask them to let you know their response.If you haven't heard from your crush in a few days, you can follow up with them.When you see them in person, ask, "Hey, did you read my note?"
Step 11: Be ready for their reaction.
Your note is the beginning of a wonderful relationship if your crush likes you too.You should be prepared for rejection if this is the case.Don't try to change the decision of your crush.It is okay to be sad or disappointed.Give yourself time to accept the situation, then let go of the idea of dating your crush, and move on.