Tell a girl that you like her even though she already has a boyfriend.
It is not always possible to control who you develop for feelings.You can develop a crush on a girl who has a boyfriend if you don't want to.If she likes you back, there are some tell-tale signs that you can look for.
Step 1: You should notice the touch barrier.
If she has broken the barrier, pay attention.If she has, you need to know if it is friendly or flirtatious.She might be giving you a pat on the shoulder or flirting with you because she is interested in you.She might be flirting if she touches you often.The amount of time she touches you determines if it is flirtatious or friendly.Did her hand linger for a few seconds or was it a quick brush?A sign of what the touch means is where she touches you.Touching your shoulder is something she does with friends, whereas touching your hand or face is a sign she is interested in you.If she reciprocates, notice.She might like you if you give her a side hug.Maybe not if she pulls away from the hug.
Step 2: She has body language.
She might not like you if she gives you space.She could be interested if she turns her body toward you.Women are nervous around men they like.She might be interested in you if she touches her hair and neck.
Step 3: You should notice her eye contact.
Some women like to look at a guy.She won't be able to help if she likes you.She might be interested in you if you notice a lot of eye contact.She might be doing the opposite of getting shy and nervous, and not looking at you at all, if you know she is that kind of girl.This could mean she likes you.
Step 4: She behaves around her boyfriend.
She has a big smile on her face if she is with her boyfriend.Maybe there is room in her heart for someone else if she always looks miserable with him.It might help you figure out how she feels about you, but it might not mean anything.If she looks sad with her boyfriend, that does not mean she doesn't love him or that she wants to be with you.
Step 5: Her sense of humor is obvious.
She might not like you if she is serious around you.It could be that she is shy or not funny, but often girls joke around with guys they like.She might like you if she genuinely seems to be having fun with you.
Step 6: Think about what she says.
She might not like you if your conversations only consist of basic day-to-day small talk.She is too nervous to ask anything deeper.She might be interested in you if she is asking about your life and interests.
Step 7: Pay attention when she talks about her boyfriend.
Her feelings for him could be fading if she only says bad things about him.She probably doesn't like you if she talks about how perfect he is.It is possible to have feelings for more than one person.If she says, "Tanner bought me roses yesterday and we are going out to dinner tonight!"She probably doesn't like you.Her heart might not be all in the relationship if she says things like "Tanner and I got in a huge fight last night because we never do anything together."
Step 8: When she speaks to you, notice.
She might like you if she goes out of her way to talk to you.If you happen to be near her, does she only talk to you if she catches up with you?She might like you if she seems to be going out of her way to talk to you.
Step 9: Take a look at your messages.
Don't forget to pay attention to your online conversations.She might not like you if she never sends you messages.She might not be doing this because she has a boyfriend.She might be interested if she always sends you texts about her day-to-day activities or asks about yourself.Maybe not if she only texts you once a month.
Step 10: Figure out what you want to do.
Determine what you want before you ask her how she feels about you.Do you love her or just want to sleep with her?It is not worth your time or her time if you don't have genuine feelings for her.It's worth asking her how she feels about you if you really like her.
Step 11: Don't be mean with her.
Don't ask her how she feels about you right away.To show her you are interested, first flirt with her.Joke around with her and be yourself.Ask her about herself.Make eye contact when you see her.If you can find an excuse to brush against her or touch her arm, try to break the touch barrier.Don't be fake and be sincere.
Step 12: Bring up something that interests you.
If you feel confident that she will like you back, ask her how she feels.It is worth it to have a clear answer.It's a delicate situation and you might be putting her in an awkward spot if you're not confident.She must love her boyfriend even if she has been flirting with him.Say something like, "I know you have a boyfriend, and I don't want to get in the way of that, but I just wanted you to know that I have developed feelings for you."I understand that you are committed to someone else, but I want you to know that if you weren't I would want to date you.
Step 13: If you have to back off.
She is not interested if she says she isn't interested.Allow her to be happy with her boyfriend.It is disrespectful to continue to pursue her.You need to get over her if you give her as much space as she wants.Continue to be her friend if you are both comfortable with it.