It's exciting to have a crush.When they walk into a room, you feel butterflies in your stomach, and you want to talk to them all the time.It can be hard to get someone to like you back when you like someone so much.To talk to your crush without being too clingy, try asking them questions about their life, avoiding double texting and understanding if they aren't in the mood to talk.
Step 1: Ask them questions that are open-ended.
It is possible to initiate conversations with your crush to show that you are interested in their life.You can come up with interesting topics for the two of you.They should be given a chance to express their opinion.Most people enjoy talking about themselves so don't hesitate to ask questions.If you get short answers or they don't seem interested in talking to you, try not to be offended.They may be shy or have a bad day.
Step 2: During conversations, give your crush a chance to respond.
It's easy to want to talk about your day or what you are thinking about, but make sure you pause long enough so that your crush can contribute to the conversation as well.Take a moment to let them speak if you ask a question.If they want to bring up a topic, you should pause for a few seconds.Your crush might have a hard time talking back to you if they are shy.Don't take it personally and try to be understanding.
Step 3: They want to spend time with you if you are kind to your crush.
Treat your crush with kindness, even if you don't want to.Offer to share your food with them if they don't have food to eat.Listen to what they say if they tell you about a bad experience.Show that you care about them.Some playful meanness is a good flirting technique, but your overall interactions should be kind so that they don't get the wrong idea.
Step 4: Tell your crush about you.
It's a good idea to let your crush know some facts about you so that they can get to know you better.They will know more about you as a person if you tell them about your hobbies and classes.Common interests may lead to more conversations.Say something like, "I love going swimming at the community center." or "What did you think of last year's English class?"I like to draw in my sketchbook when I'm bored in class.
Step 5: You don't seem clingy if you tell the truth about your interests.
Changing who you are isn't the right choice because you may want to impress your crush.Your crush will still like you back even if your hobbies and interests don't match up.Don't pretend to be an expert on what they like.This could make you seem clingy.Your crush can teach you things that you don't know.If your crush is great at basketball, ask them to teach you.It is a great bonding experience for you two.
Step 6: If they need it, give your crush space.
It is okay if you want to spend time with your crush.Sometimes they need their space.Don't follow your crush if they are not invited to you.Don't try to go with them if they walk away.If someone wants to go somewhere without you, try not to be offended.Introverts need to be alone in order to replenish their energy.Your crush might not want to be around you all the time.
Step 7: Don't give your crush a lot of praise.
If you tell your crush that you like it, it can be overwhelming.It's a good idea to limit your compliment to about 1 per day.It is great to point out if your crush has a new haircut or new shoes.If they get uncomfortable, try not to bombard them with things you like about them.A lot of praise at the same time can make your crush think you are weird.
Step 8: Don't touch your crush too much.
A pat on the arm or a quick hug is a great way to break the touch barrier between you and your crush.Frequent touching can make your crush shy away from you and not want to be around you as much.If they seem to pull away from you or they don't touch you back, try to keep your hands to yourself.Some people do not like to be touched.
Step 9: Don't text too much without a response.
People don't like to be bombarded with texts.Don't text your crush too much without a response from them.They won't come back to see a bunch of texts if you're busy or not on your phone.Limit texts to 2.They might be busy or unable to talk right now if there is no response after your second text.Texting things like, "Why aren't you responding?"Do you know where you are?Is that correct?
Step 10: You can text about topics that interest you.
Think about the things that you have in common with your crush.Do you have a class together?Do you like to play a game?Are you going to the same party?If you want to start conversations that will continue over text, you should avoid the ones that only you know about or are not interested in.Try texting, "Hey, did you finish the question set for history class tomorrow?"
Step 11: Ask them questions to start a conversation.
Some people don't know what to talk about, so they might need some help.Asking your crush questions will lead to more than one answer.This will hopefully prompt them to ask you questions as well.Say, "What did you do today, what are you up to tonight?" and then ask if you did anything fun over the weekend.
Step 12: Send them funny pictures.
Everyone enjoys a joke.You can both relate to a funny meme or picture that you send to your crush if you run out of conversation topics.You can find them on social media or online.One of you should wish them well on the test.If you watch the same show, you can find one with those characters.You could kill the conversation if you send too many meme.
Step 13: Let them know if you can't text for a while.
If you are busy with school work or an event, please let your crush know if you won't text them back for a while.This will let them know that you are busy and won't be sending them a lot of texts.Text "I'm at soccer practice right now but I wanted to say good luck at your game!"
Step 14: Don't send them messages on social media.
It is a great way to let your crush know that you are interested.It could serve to push them further away from you if you went through your crush's profile and sent them a lot of old pictures.Try to only like a post or photo when your crush posts a new one, and send them a funny meme or message after they respond to the first one.Before you start sending your crush messages on social media, try to strike up a conversation in person.They will know who you are and your message will be more random.